So, I live with my mom, two siblings and grandma and i cannot move out. This post is just to get things out of my head. My grandma has done so many things towards us that are very hurtful and I just want to get things off my head. There are many reasons why I hate my grandma:
--> she always tells everything about us to everybody but when my mothers siblings tell her to not tell something about their family or kids issues she doesn't even tell us.
--> She does everything we ask her to not to do. It has been so tiring to live with her for so long.
--> there were a time my moms brother videocalled grandma. She didn't have the light on and my mothers brother asked why she do not have the light on, she says that she is "not allowed". And the worst part is my mother's brother actually believed her lie. She always tries to get sympathy from her other three children.
--> she told us that she only lives with us and needs us because she needs medical help and food. She knows that we are the only people that will take care of her when she gets sick. It was very hurtful. She uses us and throws us away when she does not need us.
--> I cleaned the house and asked her to move so that I can clean, she was like, no, you can clean if you want. I want to sit here. Then I was so frustrated that I just ignored her. Then when I did the dishes, she pushes me to reach for a cup. When my mom suddenly turned and grandma acted so innocent and said, can you move darling! I got so pissed and started to talk to her. My mother said why I react this way. Grandma plays innocent and always makes me the villain.
When she wants to irritate us she always poops outside the toilet so I have to always clean after her. She evens poops in her bed and room. We always clean after her.
--> when we ask her why she is so rude to us, she always say that we are the one that overdo and overreacts on everything. grandma is so toxic. She cries and talks like she is innocent, but she hurts us so much
