How would you handle this if you were a parent or as a parent? He rubbed my breast, and now family members are upset with me?

[Anonymous]

Yesterday my auntie stopped by to bring me some Wendy’s food. My cousin son did a disturbing thing and people trying to look over it. I was feeling so disgusted that I changed shirts. My cousin son asked for a hug and at first I thought I was tripping at first when he picked at my shirt. He asked for a second hug and he rubbed my breast. I yelled at him “did you just touch my breast” why you just do that? I told his mom, my auntie, my mom, and others. His mom said that she told him about his mannish behavior and that he done this before. He just turned 13 years old.

My auntie who makes up excuses for everything said “oh he’s growing up”. She also said “this generation is different” I feel so disgusted. Then my auntie proceeds to say “a girl at my church grandson touched my booty and I told her he’s so mannish”. She tells me he’s going through his mannish phase and that he will be okay.

Today is Saturday and my other auntie still won’t talk to me. She won’t even answer the phone. my cousin won’t talk to me either. She has 5 kids and basically her mom raises them while she focused on looking pretty.

[worldscolide]

I'd have firmly told him that he needs to respect boundaries. And if your family is pissed if, I'd tell them to go fuck them selves.


Not only is it inappropriate, I personally am one of those people who HATES being touched, there is only one person on this planet who gets to touch me an that is my wife, and later on if we have kids, by extension them too, BUT I will make very clear what my boundaries are.

[Asker]

Yesss and they don’t do nothing to them kids especially that boy. them kids practically raising themselves. Now they not talking to me. apparently I’m a bad person because I won’t look over this

[worldscolide]

Lmao I forgot, dude is 13, he is old enough to know better. I knew better when is was fucking 5 for God's sake.

[worldscolide]

Yeah that's no way to raise children.

[Asker]

Yeah I think he just turned 13 but he’s very young.

[Asker]

They get their way with whatever

[worldscolide]

That's not good, that's how you breed entitlement.

[JustinTheGreat]

He’s 13, he’s old enough to know better and be taught that it’s wrong. It’s not like he’s a little kid, he knows what he’s doing.
your family is weird for normalizing that behavior

[Asker]

And that’s what I’m saying because I feel like a perv. I was so in shocked I waited until he got in the truck and left. I told my mom, called my mom, texted his mom all at once. Looks like it would have made no difference if I told her or not. People don’t understand how I feel. I’m a grown woman what he’s doing is wrong. He basically don’t gotta go to the bathroom, he just use it as a lure.

[JustinTheGreat]

If they continue letting him slide with this, he’s gonna grow into being a whole predator. Im sorry you’re going through this

[EmmaMary]

Just think next time he might give you a damn good fucking... Lucky you!

[Asker]

Do what?

[JustinTheGreat]

You’re fucking weird…

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Asker]

the bot did that lol

[slatyb]

Wow, that's really strange. How old is he?