If someone doesn’t visit their best friend, then are they really true friends?

[Anonymous]

I called out one of my friends because she’s never visited her best friend since she moved away. I understand she was taking care of her sick father for three years before he passed away last year, but still. It’s been two years since her best friend moved and she hasn’t once visited her. I told her off her best friend nagged at her to come visit, I wouldn’t blame her. If you don’t or can’t make time on your friends, then you’re not a true friend. No excuses! If you’re on break, VISIT HER! Uncles you have college classes, then I understand.
What’s her excuse?

[melnc]

Real friendship isn't always specified by who visited me first, but by emotional support, trust, and understanding. Sometimes life can bring circumstances, distance, responsibilities, or personal that might prevent friends from visiting as often as they'd like. What matters more is the consistency of the friendship over time... being there for each other in times of need, even if it's just through a call or a message. And in case you forgot, high school is over...

[dudewithnoname]

I try to visit keep in touch with my friend (s) all the time. It seems like its a one way street tho nowadays