Do you ever listen to your unsuccessful friends advice?

[Malbonaviro]

I've noticed a lot of female friends of mine seem to always take advice from women who are single with children, extremely undesirable in multiple ways, and spend most of their time trying to highly negative things or make up negative things about people they feel threatened by the attractiveness of. My male friends don't have this problem and we mostly spend out time talking positively about each other to such a degree that when I come around people I don't know, they immediately have a positive first impression of me. I know lots of women try to collectivize because they feel safer that way and they also try to vet others to prevent bad apples, however it seems today that every female group not only has bad apples, but the bad apples are in charge. Could this be the emergent properties of girl bosses? They're also mostly single mothers so it baffles me at how damaged females today seem to be relationship wise despite men having much higher sewer slide rates.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Love tends to blind us to the issues in front of us because of various reasons but the main one being we care enough about this other person so much we’re willing to lie to ourselves and say we’re happy when we’re not because women are always taught to put others’ feelings first before their own and we don’t want to hurt the feelings of this man we care about but aren’t happy with. That’s why the views of one’s single friends can be an eye-opener.

[Malbonaviro]

"because women are always taught to put others’ feelings first before their own"

Who taught women that?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Society, for the most part. Women are taught to be kind, compassionate, nurturing. Men aren’t really held to that same expectation

[SueShe]

Who hurt you so badly that you have those ideas? If a woman is single with child, it is because a rotten male apple has put his penis where he should not have put it in the first place and that this rotten guy has not taken his job as a father very seriously since he was too coward to be a responsible person and support that child.

Who is the rotten gender now?

If any friends are unsuccessful then it would be the ones that made a woman pregnant, escaped their duties like cowards in order to avoid having to be responsible people.

I would certainly never listen to a man that fails to take his responsibilities and puts the blame on the others.

[ProbablyClueless]

Of course. Just because they haven't been successful doesn't mean that they don't have useful insights

[Nikki1989]

It sounds like YOU are the one who has been dealt the wrong advice. This delusional bitterness you have had to come from somewhere.

[Plugs]

Threatened of attractiveness of what kind?

[Malbonaviro]

Plugs, I'm referring to various forms of attractiveness, such as physical appearance, confidence, charisma, or even professional success. It seems that some women feel threatened by others who possess these qualities, which can lead to negative behaviors like gossip or undue criticism.

[Plugs]

U are absolutely correct

[In_Trance]

Never