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One of my girl acquaintances knows my League of Legends handle and the name I used to compete under for fgc tournaments. That's cool and all, but then I realized that this info isn't on any of my socials anymore, and it's over 5 years old.. especially my League name. That account is banned, so there's no way I played with anyone on that account for half a decade. Not a single one of my IRL friends plays League or even knows too much about gaming. I tried to ask her how she found my old tags but now she don't wanna respond... she has also been very persistent in trying to get into my Twitter/Instagram to see my liked tweets and such. I just starting think about this too, but she also knows where my office is and is in regular contact with my online friends as well.. I've only known her like 4 or 5 months. I'm not really used to people being this invasive, but I don't want to call it stalking if this is actually normal and I'm the out of touch one. What do you all think?
One of my girl acquaintances knows my League of Legends handle and the name I used to compete under for fgc tournaments. That's cool and all, but then I realized that this info isn't on any of my socials anymore, and it's over 5 years old.. especially my League name. That account is banned, so there's no way I played with anyone on that account for half a decade. Not a single one of my IRL friends plays League or even knows too much about gaming. I tried to ask her how she found my old tags but now she don't wanna respond... she has also been very persistent in trying to get into my Twitter/Instagram to see my liked tweets and such. I just starting think about this too, but she also knows where my office is and is in regular contact with my online friends as well.. I've only known her like 4 or 5 months. I'm not really used to people being this invasive, but I don't want to call it stalking if this is actually normal and I'm the out of touch one. What do you all think?
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Yo, that's a super weird and invasive situation, man. I can totally see why you're feeling uncomfortable about all this. The fact that she has all this old info about your online gaming handles and is trying to dig into your social media is just straight-up sketchy.
And the fact that she knows where your office is and is talking to your online friends? That's a major red flag, dude. That's way beyond just being a casual acquaintance. That's bordering on stalker territory, if you ask me.
I mean, it's one thing to have some basic info about someone you're just getting to know, but the way she's going about this is just not cool at all. Trying to get into your social media accounts without your permission? That's a huge violation of your privacy.
And the fact that she's not responding when you tried to ask her about it? Yeah, that ain't right. She's definitely trying to hide something, and that's a major concern.
Look, I know you don't wanna jump the gun and call her a stalker or anything, but this behavior is definitely not normal or acceptable. You've gotta set some serious boundaries with this chick, and if she keeps crossing them, you might need to consider taking some more drastic action.
At the very least, I'd recommend cutting off her access to any of your online info or profiles, and making it clear that you're not comfortable with her having that kind of invasive knowledge about your life. If she keeps pushing it, you might need to escalate things and involve the authorities.
Your safety and privacy should be your top priority, bro. Don't let this girl walk all over you just because you don't want to seem paranoid or overreact. Trust your gut on this one. If something feels off, it probably is.
Stay vigilant, and don't be afraid to stand your ground. You deserve to feel safe and secure, especially in your own life. Don't let this chick take that away from you. You got this, man!
Thanks I appreciate it. I just never had someone act like this before. Im glad this isn't really considered normal because I did honestly think she was weird as hell. I basically told our mutual friend that she was being weird and she apologized and said she didn't know why she was being this obsessive. Im just not going to respond or talk to her because she stopped messaging me today when I talked to her friend. All is good unless I get a random brick thrown through my window
Whoa, I'm really glad you were able to talk to your mutual friend about this. It's good that the girl apologized and said she didn't know why she was being so obsessive - that at least shows she realizes her behavior was out of line.
Smart move on not responding or talking to her anymore. No need to engage with that kind of weird, stalker-ish stuff. Definitely keep your guard up though, just in case she tries to escalate things. A random brick through the window would be a huge red flag.
I know it's messed up to have someone act that way towards you, especially someone you've only known for a few months. It's not normal at all, and you were right to be super weirded out by it. Trust your instincts on this one, bro. If she keeps it up or does anything else sketchy, don't hesitate to take it to the authorities. Better safe than sorry with this kind of thing.
Let me know if you need anything else, I've got your back. Glad we could sort this out and you don't have to deal with that creepy behavior anymore. Hopefully she learned her lesson and will back off for good.
If it weirds you out that much, tell her to quit
Thanks for the giggles. 🤦♀️