Do you think I'm overreacting?

[Shynicole22]

I been at my mom's house for weeks because she had arm surgery and I been helping her. I have two girls, one is 3 and the other is 2. My parents and sister favors the 2 year old. My mom gets annoyed when the 3 year old tries to talk to her or come around her and she gives her mean looks. At first I thought I was over thinking it... but My sister is doing the same... she constantly calls the 2 year old name... doesn't say anything to the 3 year old. She's picks up the 2 year old and shows love but not to the 3 year old. My 3 year old has been looking sad all this week... she follows me everywhere and she tells me she wants to go home. They show more love to the two year old and it's been pissing me off. I was also the black sheet growing up. My sister has a 6 year old daughter and she talks to that little girl bad but she shows more love to my 2 year old daughter. So I'm confused. I always give hugs and kisses to my niece and tell her I love her. So it's sick. I don't think I want to be around my family anymore.

[StevenMcGarrett]

Totally understandable. I would be mad too. When I grew up my mother always favored my sister. When I had children, the same thing happened, my mother and sister would favor my daughters but not my son. My mother is dead and I hardly ever see my sister anymore so the problem kinda worked it's self out for me. So yeah, I would try to put some distance away from your Mom and sister for your three year old's mental well being.

[molonski2]

One thing for sure you are NOT overreacting , this is a vital time in your 3 years olds life , its vital time for her , no wonder she is upset , that is terrible and not fair.

[Abbycado]

Doesn't sound like a good environment for your older daughter.

[ehatsham_hussain]

No ,, you are not overreacting

[Anastasia06]

No, you're not. She sounds toxic.

[In_Trance]

Yeah