Why do people claim families are so important when it’s only the mother and child who are considered important and the father is always expendable?

[SolitarySolace]

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Is it just the sad reality all men must just get used to?

[Miristheiss]

Well, you have a partial point, that is how much of society views men. But, the family is important as research and statistics show how messed up so many kids raised by single moms end up being to society, promiscuous themselves, drug use, crime, dropping out of school, poverty, gang activity.

When you look at the stats of kids who grow up in a 2 parent home and those who grow up with mom only and see the macro results... you'll see that have a strong dad who tells his kids no, sets rules and who isn't swayed by emotion and feelings all the time, who prioritizes the kid shows respect, follows the rules and who gets tough love is imperative for society.

[SolitarySolace]

So that’s all men are meant for when it comes to family? Forcing their sons to respect women and teaching their daughters that they should expect the world?

[SolitarySolace]

Teaching their daughters that they deserve the world?*

[LazerBean]

OP is seething so badly that he can't even read what you posting without inserting his own weird interpretation into it. There's a 100% chance his father had little interaction in his childhood.

[OlofssonBengtsson]

They view the man as a thing that funds the woman to care for the kids. If he gives his wife money and makes her comfortable then he is a good husband and that is all that matters in society.

But then they complain about fathers not putting enough effort into raising the kids in society even though they discourge a man express his emotions and human qualities.

[SolitarySolace]

So why do men put up with it? Why do men allow themselves to be treated this way by women and society?

[OlofssonBengtsson]

The average guy will allow himself to be treated like shit just to either get some pussy or to not be lonely. Its like the guys that will betray their good friend's just because their girlfriend doesn't like them.

Guys are waking up to it, but it's not enough to make a huge difference yet. They won't put up with it forever. Things change.

[SolitarySolace]

I highly doubt that. I was in a Facebook group for my county and all of the men attacked me and the women too. Some even sent me message requests. One guy wanted to meet up at a church parking lot to “smack the shit out of me” I didn’t go. Men will never allow themselves to stand up to women. Men will always allow themselves to be disposable slaves to women. Men are careless especially when it comes to their own needs. They expect women to care for them 🤣

[SolitarySolace]

And the only way a woman would give a shit about a man is if that man uplifts her and other women while attacking other men in the process. As if he’s actually worth a damn

[SolitarySolace]

I fucking hate women and I fucking hate men for doing shit for women

[SolitarySolace]

Men should be chokeholding women against the fucking wall and throwing her across the room

[sage2021]

I can't agree with that. Please let's not say things like that because the man of the house is worth his weight in gold if he's a good man! 👞 What would we do without men - I shudder to even think about it!!

[SolitarySolace]

Men are only loved if they’re providing something.

[sage2021]

@SolitarySolace

Am I the only woman left in the world that isn't down on men?
I think that both men and women are an asset to the family. Everyone should share the load.

[SolitarySolace]

You’re most likely the only one who genuinely believes that while others only claim to and attack me for bringing it up as if they’re butthurt by something. Makes me believe I’m correct if people, both men and women, attack and ridicule me with everything they’ve got

[SolitarySolace]

Love has become hate and hate is still hate

[SolitarySolace]

People defend love with hate as if love is a good thing

[sage2021]

@SolitarySolace

What is happening to men just baffles my mind and I am so disgusted with people who are down on men, hate men, think men should be poisoned and die!
If all the men disappeared all at once and suddenly there wasn't even one man on earth 🌎 anymore maybe THEN men would be appreciated the way they should be.
Personally, my father abandoned us when I was 4 years old and never paid child support. I had to go to work when I was still in high school and working too because I didn't want to starve or show up at school without any clothes to wear.
My husband who I was still in love with abandoned my newborn son and I on December 2nd which would have been my son's first Christmas so we didn't have any Christmas and my heart was broken 💔 in two. Plus he stole my beautiful car I bought before I ever knew him.
So I have reasons to hate men but I still don't hate them and I personally know of one who would really make some lucky woman and excellent and faithful husband one day ❤️

[katiesmuff]

First of all fathers are not expendable in reality.

[sirderpsalot123]

A lot of people are stupid and believe stupid things. But there's also a lot of people who don't see fathers as expendable. Research actually shows that fathers are important, especially to their sons.

[SolitarySolace]

Yeah? By teaching their sons to respect women while teaching daughters to expect the world? That’ll set those boys up for a real great future when those girls start utilizing laws to ruin those boys to men’s lives

[SolitarySolace]

But no one gives a shit about boys enough to give them the tools to prevent girls from ruining their lives when they’re older 🤷🏻‍♂️

[SolitarySolace]

Fathers don’t even give a shit that they’re setting their own boys up for a future they’re just gonna have to shut up and deal with

[sirderpsalot123]

It's a better future than growing up to be criminals like a lot of men who didn't grow up with their father in the picture.

[SolitarySolace]

Did I say to remove the father from the household? 🤣 damn you really want boys to become slaves to women

[sirderpsalot123]

I'm explaining why I think fathers are important since you seem to think that nobody gives a shit about them.

[SolitarySolace]

I have no doubt you’re one of them who gives women respect they didn’t earn while women don’t have to respect you at all

[SolitarySolace]

No one does unless he is providing something and doing whatever the bitch he is unfortunately with tells him to

[sirderpsalot123]

I give everyone basic human respect. That's about it unless I care about them.

[SolitarySolace]

🤷🏻‍♂️ alright. Keep sucking clit

[sirderpsalot123]

You're weird bro lol