It’s not helping my living situation. When I didn’t have a lot of money my mom asked me for 200 dollars for a baby’s bday party and she promised me to pay it back to me herself at first I was hesitant but she got mad and called me a bunch of names so I gave it to her. Then when the time came for her to pay it back like she said she would she backed out and involved my dad in it saying that he couldn’t pay for it because he had paid for all my car repairs when it was her that promised to pay it back to me not him. She made a show in the car calling my dad telling him that I called her a thief when all I said was that she tricked me, and she was literally screaming and crying while insulting me. I told my dad that I did not call her a thief but he still keeps on saying that I did despite her being obviously in the wrong he defended her and still defends her every disagreement that we have even if she treats me bad she’s always right. My mom doesn’t work but she recently spent almost 700 dollars on clothes and couldn’t pay me the 200 dollars back. I never got the money back I told my dad not to worry about it. I always got along with my dad and thought that he was sweet but he keeps on choosing her side over and over again. This makes me feel alone like I have no one and I don’t see him the same anymore because he started claiming that I verbally attack her when it’s not like that at all. I don’t have any cousins I could talk to because of my parents problems with my family. Besides my boyfriend I have no one else on my side so it gets lonely :(. I’m going to be working hard at a factory again I have to save up to hopefully move out next October or November.
What could be the reason why some father’s (including mine) always choose the mom’s side over the kid?
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With my father it’s like he doesn’t know me at all. He knows that I have a low self esteem and that I’m a quiet person but he still says things about me that are not true like that I verbally attack my mom when it was her that did it to me for years that really makes me feel bad that he acts like I’m the bad one everytime. I don’t think I even know what a mother’s love is my mom is so cold to me but kinder to my brother and she only talks to me to order me around.
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I’m not going to use any more of my time trying to explain that those things aren’t true to my dad. I’m just going to give up they never listen and are all the same.
