What do I do for my niece?

[Anonymous]

I really think my niece is turning into a lesbian. And I feel so horrible because I don’t want her to live that life. That life isn’t a good life. She’ll become depressed and miserable like all lesbians. No matter how “happy” they claim to be…. Anyways, I think my older brother failed her as a parent. He always had her helping him with stuff around the house, and I think it made her confused into thinking she can be a boy. She wears boy clothes now. And I think it’s dumb how my brother isn’t doing anything about that. I think it also doesn’t help that his wife and him don’t have a good relationship. So she doesn’t see what a man and woman relationship can be. At this point, I don’t know if whether to tell her that living as a lesbian isn’t the best choice? Or to just stay out of her life?

[Anonymous]

I say this kindly, but sir mind your business. Remember only god can judge? Keep that phrase close and go live your life. Are you married? In a relationship? Have a good job? Great! Those things are your problem, not your brothers kid. Life is a journey that we can’t take for other people, we all have to learn lessons on our own. You’ve said your peace, everyone knows you despise it, so leave her alone now before you do irreparable damage to your relationship.

[Nikki1989]

You obviously don't know many if any lesbians.

You are either a real idiot or just trolling. I am hoping it is the latter.

[Asker]

I do. I was even friends with a few of them. They do not live good lives.

[Nikki1989]

Now I know you are talking utter bollocks. Good grief!

[Asker]

You have your own opinion and so do I…

[red-lipstick-girl]

Do things that will make her feel like a girl. First take her to a psychologist, then dress her in girl's clothes, make her wear make-up and play with dolls.