What do I do need advise?

[Anonymous]

I had a miscarriage right before Thanksgiving it was an early pregnancy we didn't even tell our parents yet... I've always had hormon issues and never knew if I could actually get pregnant or not... now I feel miserable and like i failed and I'm worried I won't be able to actually keep a pregnancy and I don't know how to tell my husband this because all he wants is to be a dad so badly and i feel like I'm failing and that this will hurt our relationship

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

First off, I'm completely sorry for your loss. I understand the pain as my wife lost one as well to a miscarriage. Heck she bled out so much I was afraid I was going to lose her too.

In no way is this your fault. Miscarriages are incredibly common and don't necessarily reflect on your ability to start a family with your partner. When you are healed both physically and emotionally, you can always try again.

I hope the best for you both in starting a family. Good luck!

[MikeRJ]

I am very sorry for your loss. But it is not a personal failure on your part. Don't be ashamed of letting people know if you are comfortable with them. It is no different than if you lost a child to something like cancer. You did nothing wrong.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Communicate, y'all can always try for another one, how you feel doesn't mean that's what will happen, the future isn't written but it's important to communicate with your partner