Advice on what to do?

[Anonymous]

I’m 27F and I’m a virgin, i wanted to wait until I found someone I could trust and hopefully marry. But it’s not looking likely and honestly it’s just becoming a burden and I don’t want to be looked at as weird anymore. I’m not dating currently I was and I’ve done a few things with men. But my question is how do I go about just getting a guy to take it? Bc it seems like the last few times I’ve brought it up I get ghosted😐

My next question is I have a guy that’s a really god friend that I trust and I wouldn’t be opposed to letting him do the deed but I just don’t want to make him feel awkward or weird! So how do I go about this too?

[MittParekh15]

Well it's okay to be virgin at 27 , Don't allow societal pressure to may you have sex

It seems you have goof up with few guys, it's okay

Just be your self and respect other person opinions and move slowly

In case he is your good friend he will understand you just go slowly and be yourself and honest

Even I am a 28 guy from mumbai, with personality trait of introvert. I am saying this from my personal experience. I have also horribly gone wrong with girls. Just move on its better to make early mistake rather than realising after years

Hope this answer your question

[abc3643]

Perhaps make this "really good friend" into the boyfriend that you want and need. Believe it or not, the hard part for a marriage - getting to know each other and actually like each other - seems to be over for you. So, get over what is holding you back from turning it into a real relationship, and make it so. The rest will follow.

[HelpfulWoman]

"i don't want to be looked at as weird"
but you're not weird. and people wouldn't know unless you're blabbing it around everywhere, in which case you being a virgin isn't why you're weird still.
don't fuck up a friendship because you WILL make it weird

[TheSpaceGnome]

My advice is to not do that, and continue to wait until you find the right guy.

If you have sex just to not be a virgin, then you are going to be viewed as "too weird".

[jaskin777]

Have a guy u trust and will be gentle with u

[kingmaker21]

You mean you want to give away your virginity?

[moviedude714]

Saving for marriage?

[Anonymous]

I know how you feel.