Is it normal to be angry because wife will not explain what she is doing in the bathroom or why she took a different route I deserve an explanation?

[Hatedevils]

My wife and I had to do stuff at the same time. She got an uber eat assignment and said she would be back before I needed to go. She made a fifty dollar tip. She was back in time but I thinkshe could have had been faster if she had taken a certain route. she said she didn't want to because it's very stressful and congested. She would rather take her usual way. If she really respect she would have with the way I said.. Later she was using the bathroom and filled an empty can of diet red bull with water. I don't think it's right to do that she won't tell me why she does that? I want to know why

She did this before peeing or watching hands. She should wash her hands. First.

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I need a play byplay of everything she does

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I thinks extremely insanitary to use the same cup all day for water I think it's unsanitary she is getting water from the tap

[AnonAndrew]

If she thinks the other route is stressful, just let her drive whichever one she wants, man.

The Red Bull can-thing is pretty weird, and I'd be curious too. Maybe the reason she doesn't wanna answer you is because she feels like you are constantly hassling her about many things she does, so she just doesn't want to answer you?

Ease up a bit on her, man.

[Lliam]

You sound like a control freak. If someone treated me that way, I would tell them to go fuck themselves.

[Hatedevils]

I am not. I have to make sure she is doing things correctly. If she would shut up do what I say and take my advice we would not have any problems. Also it might be snowy and I don't want her going anywhere so I am fighting her. So she will be too tired to go

[Lliam]

That comment is either satirical or you are nuts? LMAO

[Hatedevils]

Neither. she doesn't seem to understand what I am trying to do. I need to know what who what when where and why all the time. I will leave her alone if she answers all my questions.

[Lliam]

But that's not controlling. LOL Sounds like you treat her like your child.

[sinderella18]

I think a lot worse things happen in life.

Maybe don't ask her so many questions and be nice towards her then she may tell you

[Apple1996]

Dude if my husband started questioning the weird shit I do i wouldn't answer him either lol

[Anonymous]

Your poor wife. I hope she has the good sense to find a better husband.

[Darkest-Knight]

I hope you're a troll. If you're serious, you definitely have some issues.

[Hatedevils]

I am serious. I am looking out for her best interest. The other route saves so much time. She said she wants to live and sometimes bad happens every time she goes that way. She uses paper plates and Styrofoam bowls and her empty redbull can as a cup because I was complaining about the dishes.

[Hatedevils]

I do the dishes because I don't like the way she does them. I still want her to do them.

[Anonymous]

That is a trust issue on your part. You better fix it quick, or you won't have a wife.

[Hatedevils]

I don't see it as big deal. She think it's insane I'm watching her pee to make sure she's doing it right

[Opinion Owner]

You watch her go to the bathroom. Your marriage is already over for that alone.

[Hatedevils]

Yes I worry she's doing it wrong and need to lecture her on how to pee correctly. I need a lot of Everytime she pees. I don't like that she gets water out of the tap

[Opinion Owner]

You seriously better have a good divorce lawyer doing this sort of immature stuff.

[Hatedevils]

You shouldn't get water first you should pee first. Everything must be doing in order

[Opinion Owner]

Good Luck!

[Hatedevils]

She wants to know why I am so obsessed with her using the bathroom. I have to go to church tomorrow alone and I think Satan is using her as a pawn to keep me from going to church. she said no she just wanted to use the bathroom

[Hatedevils]

I had to use the bathroom so I started a big fight I wasn't sure how to ask her

[naartjie]

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[naartjie]

The red flags are for you sir. You sound controlling. Let the woman drive where she wants. You need to work on yourself and I hope she finds the will to leave