My self esteem is very low because I have schizophrenia and I’m afraid people won’t want to be my friend. How do I make friends?

[Anonymous]

It is controlled and managed but I’m not working right now because of this. How will I make new friends?

[Anonymous]

I wish I knew. My ex had Schizophrenia, and I tried so hard to reach out to her and get her to let me in and trust me but she had so much trauma and abuse in her background she was completely broken, and I couldn't fix her. I wasn't perfect either. I was drinking more than I should have and was smoking cigs back then. I also had surrounded myself with a bad crowd and in the end she was right about her criticisms.

The only thing I can really tell you is even if it's difficult because of your disorder you'll never meet friends or fall in love unless you let people in, like really be open and honest with them. I'm not saying right away but I am saying you HAVE to let yourself trust people to an extent or you'll always fail. Focus on healing atm and try to put yourself in places you could meet people. If there are any clubs or groups in your area that are centered around a hobby of yours that could be a great starting point to look for friends.

[Hellraiser1984]

I have borderline personality disorder. I avoid friends because of the stress and anxiety involved. Friends are very overrated. I have aquaintences nothing more. My first advice is to NEVER tell anyone you are mentally ill EVER! Both of our diagnoses are sadly greatly stigmatized by society. My second piece of advice is ease yourself into it. Don't overdo it and be careful about who you want as a friend. Most people are garbage

[Anonymous]

Mine is controlled and managed as well. I didn't have a job for a while but I knew I had to get back out there and work. I have made a friend at work even though I have a friend outside of work. But if you want to make friends, working is the best way to do that along with getting out there and socializing.

I know it's easier said than done but you have to start somewhere if you want friends.

[Opinion Owner]

They don't have to know you have schizophrenia right off the bat by the way. Especially when it's controlled and managed. Ease into the friendship part first and once you get close then tell them that you have it.

[Agape93]

It's like with any disorder. It'll suck and be hard but you just gotta be straight up about it, and find those able and willing to understand

[Ironic_Method]

It's hard to make new friends when you're not in school. I think it depends on what you like to do for fun first, then go to groups or meet ups that pertain to your interests like painting or cooking or skydiving classes.

[Ariesman81]

I'm gonna get absolutely roasted for this but, stop taking your meds?

[Asker]

Why do you say that?

[jahaims]

Other people exist with your condition and you have internet access. Find others like you.