I think I have not had friends since freshman year high school because I doubt I have anything to offer as a friend. My self esteem is SO LOW. What?

[Udierbr]

What do I do?

I think I figured out why I have no friends and can't open up to people. I think its cause I have self diagnosed aspergers, was bullied through life, and have such low self estewm that I doubt that I have anything to offer as a friend. Now what?

[NamerOfStars]

Reflect. Do a deep self-assessment, and see if you can't find value in whah you hawe to offer in friendship. If you can't, then figure out some things you COULD have; if you do have Asperger's, you're likely always going to struggle with smoothness and taking accurate, rapid readings of the room, but you can bring honesty and loyalty to the front, as well as providing the purspective of an outsider's outsider to others' events.

Don't let advantages you lack blind you to those you have.

[Udierbr]

Thanks i hope i have some qualities. As for self reflection, I don't know. I know when i had friends in middle school i made one laugh a lot. Ao maybe i can be funny sometimes (by accident).

[one1wild00]

Let someone in and let them be the judge of what you do or don't have to offer.

[Mynameisbobby]

I'm sure you would make a good friend and have plenty to offer. Sorry you got bullied don't listen to the haters people will always judge you no matter what. Just be you ❤️

[Udierbr]

Thanks so much very sweet of you❤