Why do Single Moms except a decent guy without kids to find her dateable?

Snar87
I’m not referring to the single moms who had a committed relationship with the child’s father and the father is still in the child’s life. The father had something going for him and it just didn’t work out between the two. I’m referring to the single moms who had a child with a guy with no commitment and the guy had NOTHING going for him other then he’s cool. The guy being the loser he is gets up and leave when he finds out the girl he‘s with is pregnant with his child. Anyway, after her first or second (third in some cases) child, the single mom suddenly wants a decent guy and expects a guy without kids to accept her as if she didn’t have a child.

Why do they think a guy without kids who’s in his pre-success years want a readymade family? In the past few months, I had a few single moms who basically whored around with all the wrong guys and suddenly wants me AFTER she had her child or second child. Now she’s thinking about her son needing a father figure in his life. Other than the fact she thinks I’m a stupid, what the hell is going through her/their mind? Wouldn’t it make sense to get a guy who has kids himself? I typically ignore single moms like a lump of plastic.
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Again...

- Not referring to the single moms who had a commitment with a guy and it didn't work out and/or the father is still in the child's life.

- Also I'm not referring to the "victim" mom.

- Not the single moms who the child's father died

- Women over 30 is not included here. 25 and under


I'm referring to the women who slept around with the wrong guys with nothing going for them and got pregnant.
Why do Single Moms except a decent guy without kids to find her dateable?
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