If a mom chooses to raise her kids solo, think about what she faced. No mom picks the tough road unless staying was worst?

[Anonymous]

Let that hit you.

[Stevepro68]

Well no raising your kids solo means you have either excluded the partner for legal reasons and\or the father has walked away or died. If you are talking about reasons for divorce. Sometimes humans are completely selfish and do things because there are secondary benefits. I would say your statement is a generalization and probably not even common.

[Asker]

My situation has to do with domestic violence. Hence why I said "unless staying is worst". Yet single moms still get judge badly.

[jahaims]

That's assuming bad moms don't exist. If you let trash nut in you, you are a bad mom.

[Asker]

A bad mom would have kept herself and her child in that violent environment. A good mom get their child to safety.

[jahaims]

Good moms don't let trash nut in them

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Lmao no wonder your kids don’t like you

[Asker]

What are you talking about? My kid LOVES me.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Then why do you need someone to validate your motherhood?

[Asker]

Because people (mostly men) make it sound like it was a horrible thing to do to leave. How dare I get divorced. How sinful.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Shocker, men are assholes. But insisting that people be grateful to their mothers when you yourself are confident your kids are grateful for you does not give the message you want. It just says you’re upset and bitter for reasons outside of your control and you take it out on others, maybe your kids. That’s the whole vibe.

[Asker]

I never insisted nor mentioned that kids should be grateful for their mothers. You are misunderstanding. It's about adults judging other adults (single parents) badly. And I don't take out anything on my kid.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Again, that was the vibe I got. Clearly not your intention

[Ironic_Method]

Or maybe she made bad decisions.

[Asker]

Well obviously.

[Ironco]

Or maybe he died...

[MasterKS]

Single mothers are easy, i love them.

[slatyb]

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