Does anyone else live with a constant fear that one of their parents might suddenly pass away?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Orion84]

Not really, no.

I'm aware that it will happen, someday, but it doesn't bother me; it's a natural part of life. I'm not looking forward to my mother passing, but I've accepted that it will happen

My father, on the other hand, I have not spoken to for many years, and could already be dead, as far as I know. Good riddance, either way. He's a piece of shit, and the world will be a better place, without him.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I just want to get it over with... dad is dead... just got mom to go through now. Hurry up and die you dumb bitch. Let my sisters pull your money value apart while I take a step back. Just get it over with and a final fuck you to Mom... you're a bitch.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

When my dad got diagnosed with cancer, I became acutely aware that his time on earth was limited, but I don’t live in constant fear of his death.

[Nikki1989]

Nah. My parents could already be dead, for all I know.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea I have a constant thought process of losing my family and I'm left alone in the world, I have prepared for it, I have made a plan for it, that being that I'll get back into the street life until I get myself killed, whatever money I make I will give away and keep the cycle going until I run out of luck.

[Vevv123]

This is not a plan, thats just simply giving up. You know there’s more options? 🧐

[ChicoFromThe305]

It's not giving up, everything I care about would be gone so bring left behind would make no sense to me

[Vevv123]

But I’m sure they wouldn’t like for you to take the destructive route. Im sure they would like to know their son eventually was able to surpass that obstacle. Nobody ever does fully, but that’s how you honor the people who helped shape the person you are. I’m sure it will bring them peace knowing you would be able to find strength if anything ever happened to them. Personally I would be devastated if I knew this is how my son thought if something ever happened to me.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Not like it will matter cause when you are dead you are sleeping in your grave until God awakens the dead, you won't know or feel anything for anyone, you are gone lol

[Vevv123]

If you’re thinking about God, then you know he wouldn’t give you life just for you to throw it away. And as a parent it would give me peace now knowing that if anything ever happened to me that my child would be able to surpass something so difficult. Imagine if something ever happened to you, would it make you happy knowing that your family would turn to self destruction? Wouldn’t you want to know that they suffered but chose to move forward with your memory as a reminder to keep going?

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well I'm gone, not like it will do any difference but I guess I wouldn't want them to do such a think but personally I see no logic in taking my whole family out and leaving me behind

[Vevv123]

You already know you wouldn’t want your family to self-destruct if something happened to you, so why would you plan to do that to yourself if something happened to them? Even if it feels logical in your head, deep down you already know it isn’t. Pain and grief aren’t a reason to end yourself they’re the very moments God calls us to lean on him the most. 🧐

[ChicoFromThe305]

I can meet up with them faster tho 😬

[Vevv123]

If you were to tell this to your parents right now, would they approve 😤🧐 probably not! 😤 stop it with your crazy talk before my mom comes and gives you the look. *te persigna*

[ChicoFromThe305]

I actually already told them 😂

[Vevv123]

What… 😤 why would you tell them such a thing. You want to give them a heart attack already. What’d they say.. 🤔

[ChicoFromThe305]

Ey it's what they get for doing that Hispanic threatening crap when they say you are going to miss them when they go to the other realm 😂

[Vevv123]

Those threats aren’t enough, you need to be handcuffed 😤

[ChicoFromThe305]

It is illegal to take ositos freedom in any way 😂🧸

[Fireguy17]

sadly both my parents passed.
Mom had cancer, dad just got old and had health issues that were not going to get better, so he stopped getting treatments.

[jahaims]

Nah, that's not normal. Go to therapy

[strateguy632]

Not me

[FateofOphelia]

I do