Did I make a good call and escape? 🆘️⚠️? Advice would be Highly appreciated?

[MrAgent640509040147]

■》My girlfriend of 2 years, put a lot of pressure on me to move out of my 1 single apartment (that I've a lease for 1 year thats brand new)

■》She was told she has 6 months to get out of her house and she got nasty with me saying "if I was a man I'd be looking for a place for me and my son (its her kid not mine) she started to be nasty calling me a joke and saying I'm an avoidant and just rapid insults - She said I'm forcing her to move in with her mum and stressful situation, saying for me to enjoy my precious apartment and just all hatred.

■》She has car problems, loans debts, and job problems and blames all on me I offered her money she didn't take it but kept saying degrading things so I blocked her and then she said I dumped her I just blocked her cause she was abusing me with swearing and insults

■》If a man did that he'd be called an abusive manipulator, now she hates my guts for blocking her for 2 days - the reason I blocked her was I wasn't going to listen to her belittling me. She said she'll find someone else and now she's full of hatred when she sees me and gives out about me to everyone full of rage.

[HollyK21]

Pretty sure that’s the same anon who made a whole post airing her grievances about you rather than being direct. Very strange. Personally I don’t think this was an “asshole” move, I don't know why you’d be responsible for finding her a new place to live. I don’t know many who’d advise you break your lease unless they’d also advise whoever you’re breaking it for to help pay it. Then you’re supposed to have the funds for a downpayment on a new place and whatever the rent would be there for 2-3 bedrooms. Also, why was she given 6 months to move out? Sounds like an eviction or something.

[MrAgent640509040147]

They wanted to sell the house - the rent would be nearly 3 times more also I'd need to pay half a deposit - I'd lose mh despot and be on a blacklist around my area as its a year contract but yet I'm the bad man

[HollyK21]

I’m engaged and I could never imagine asking that of my fiancé. The apartment we live in now would cost 2x more than what it does now and to me that’s insane. People need to think of the logistics of what they’re asking and how realistic that is. Maybe they could crash at your place or something until she either finds a place or your lease is up.

[HollyK21]

To clarify I mean what we paid moving in would not be what it costs now for this exact same apartment.

[MrAgent640509040147]

I offered mine she said its not suitable and to small

[HollyK21]

See dude that’s ridiculous. Would she be willing pitch in money to help you break your lease? Along with money for a downpayment on a new place plus whatever amount of rent you also have to pay upon moving in? Just covering these bases for any of the women eager to call you an asshole, let’s see how willing to compromise your girlfriend is.

[MrAgent640509040147]

Exactly, its not easy - especially when it's said in a nasty degrading way to make me feel like a worthless man

[HollyK21]

Maybe this isn’t the best relationship for you anymore dude. Compromise is important in a relationship and she’s not interested in doing her part, or considering what you’d have to do in order to accommodate her.

[MrAgent640509040147]

Its over now anyway better off

[HollyK21]

Good for you! That’s the better choice.

[Anonymous]

Why are you still droning on about this?

Did I make the right decision ⛔️/✅️ ?

[Anonymous]

she's a typical feminist engaging in toxic masculine behavior she supposedly abhors

though she is "right" to question your manhood when you should've dumped her a long time ago

[seeyounexttuesday]

she sounds like a typical woman who's never accountable for her decisions.

[Anonymous]

We already went through this before. You are the a-hole.

[MrAgent640509040147]

Thanks anonymous