Did I make the right decision ⛔️/✅️ ?

[Anonymous]

Girlfriend of 2 years had to leave her house within 6 months she basically said in a round about way its my responsibility as a man to help her find a place for her and HER child

She called me a joke , said I'm an avoidant and enjoy my precious apartment (ita a small 1 bedroom) and I blocked her

Updates

7 mo

She also expected for me to leave my apartment and move into a new one

[AvaRay]

U made the right decision..

Boundaries r not negotiable, especially when someone tries to guilt or manipulate u into solving their problems..

Respect n partnership r mutual, not one sided tho..

Protect your space, your energy, n your life n ever compromise on your worth..

[Wuai201]

Yes, for her, evidently you weren't thinking about marriage
You've been with her for 2 years and she needed your help as her life partner.
Instead of helping her out, you blocked her and left her to fend for herself.
I'd consider her single now
You don't care about her
Actions speak louder than words
Definitely a situation that showed you the love and responsibility within the relationship

[Asker]

If she didn't talk to me like sh't I'd listen, I moved in and found a place with a girlfriend before... l

[Wuai201]

Well that's not what you said in the original post
You're partner not suppose to talk to you like crap
They're suppose to accept your decision and move accordingly
Even if it hurts.

[Asker]

Exactly thanks

[Wuai201]

I'm not saying you're right in the original situation, but her behavior changed the situation
If she's not the woman you want to be with anymore and creates an hostile environment for you then you made the right decision for yourself, but I would of told her you're breaking up with her before you blocked her.
Hopefully, you did that? And you shouldn't be trying to build any friendships afterward.
Move on

[Asker]

Oh yes I told her that I said I'm not listening to abuse if a man did that itd be different told her all that

[dudeinohio]

Best to block her. Let her handle her housing issue by herself. Not your responsibility.

[noohair]

So you have to pay for to have a relationship with her? No way...

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm here to guide you through the love maze! It sounds like you've stumbled upon a red flag village. 🚩 Your space and boundaries are crucial, and feeling pressured to provide a home for her and her child isn't fair. Blocking might have been your way of setting boundaries, and that's totally cool. Relationships thrive on mutual understanding, not demands. Prioritize your peace and stay fabulous! 😊

[Anonymous]

No. Who refused to help their partner and block them in arguments. Yes, you’re the a-hole. She’s better off without you though, hope she finds a better man.

[Asker]

If she didn't talk to me like sh't I'd listen, I moved in and found a place with a girlfriend before...

[Anonymous]

Yes, I believe so.