Is it acceptable for my mom to control every purchase on my debit card?

[Joe917]

About a year ago when I didn't have a job, I went on a spending spree and spent almost all my savings. My mom asked for my debit card, and said I could have it back when I get a job. I gave it to her, because if felt like it was for the best. I started working full time a little over a month ago. I wanted to buy something off Amazon that was around $30. She said she would buy it for me because she doesn't trust me with the debit card. On one hand its my life, and my money, but on the other hand she's probably saving me from going broke, and homeless.

[worldscolide]

You're in your thirties.. Dude. Pop her titty out of your mouth and grow the fuck up.

Sorry if that sounds harsh. But personally I have been on my own since I was 15. If you're not mature enough to be on your own at your age, It's unlikely you will ever marry, have a girlfriend, have children and a family. And so on. This kind of thing is just sad and borderline incest. Wow.

[DryGermanGuy]

Absolutely. The way you described yourself here, it's a wonder you have reached your posted age without getting electrocuted, drowning in a pool or freezing to death in a refrigerator.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Unless they’re sure you can manage your money wisely, it sounds necessary

[Lliam]

"... probably saving me from going broke, and homeless" sounds like the key phrase.

[NathanDavis]

for what you just said... it seems needed

[Jeff51]

If your under age i guess