Was my late dad’s girlfriend too harsh with me as an autistic adult?

[Anonymous]

My late dads girlfriend got in my face for taking advantage of my aunt and uncle , mooching off of them for not working for months and had a painfully honest conversation with me that causes me to break down crying. She said what would happen if my aunt and uncle were gone and my siblings. What will I do then? Daddy is gone and so is mom but she was worthless because she abandoned me and him.
She said, “Well truth hurts sometimes…everyone tried to tell you but you refuse to listen and other family did you NO favor of not telling you these. Your family weren’t having these talks with you! They’re too afraid of how you would react but I’m not letting you yell and scream at me. NO FUCKING MA’AM! Autism or not. If they aren’t going to tell you the hard truth, I WILL.” She really hurt me so bad with the truth and I cried like a baby for hours. Can’t believe my aunt and uncle let her speak to me that way. I can’t get it out of my head.

[jahaims]

Cognitive dissonance. Basically you can't handle the truth. She sounds right

[Asker]

What’s that supposed to mean? My aunt and uncle literally just let her spoke to me that way and they said it’s about time someone hit me where it hurts. I need that tough love since I refuse to listen to them or older siblings. I cried for hours. I called my sister crying about it and she said, “Oh get real! We told you! We tried to tell you but you refuse to listen! Everyone tried to help but all you ever do is take us for granted! I’m not doing this shit with you! Suck it up!” And she hung up on me.

[Anonymous]

Stop spamming this nonsense.