How can I make real friends when I’m scared to trust people?

[Anonymous]

I am afraid of trusting people so the people who are my 'friends' are honestly more acquaintances.

I too scared of people after all that.

[ohsheeT]

Well you should try to remember that you are the boss and you have the final say no matter what you can make real friends and be their friend but the whole thing is one out of 10 maybe will actually look at you the same way so when you become friends with somebody you kind of can read them and you know exactly who they are what they actually really want from you and it's your choice to either go there and let them go there or allow whatever to happen you are the boss of you you are in control of you so don't look at it as if they can tell you what to do because they can't

Do you have a true real friend right now and do you know what that even is would you like to have one true real friend


Because they are really hard to find I know thousands and thousands of people I don't even know if I have a true friend I'm looking for a true friend but they are hard to find I know what a true friend is so I show or I deal with people the way true friendship but I never get the same in return and that's all good because as long as I'm true to myself that's all it comes

If you're looking for a friend I'll be your friend This you see how it works see how long it lasts Learn from each other

And I said that for many different reasons now let's see what happens or see if you can allow yourself to even enter into that room I know it's kind of weird but I thought I would ask

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

To get there, I see no easy way, only a long and introspective road paved with uncertainties, with difficulties to identify who to trust and with troubles to figure out what belongs to the past and what belongs to the present.

And hopefully, paved with luck too, so🍀to you

[Nikki1989]

You don't have to jump from total isolation to ultimate vulnerability overnight. Building trust is a gradual process. Baby steps!

[Abbycado]

You really can’t if you can’t learn to trust people.

[ashish804]

You will gradually start trusting

[slatyb]

Ask your therapist.