Do u think I should block her?

[s0j7e3zyxc8v0]

i met this girl online like 2 months ago. we talked exchanged pics and voice messages, even video called each other, and told each other everything we got really close.. she had broken up with her boyfriend but then she got back with him. i was like "why’d u get back with him? didn’t he do you dirty?" she said "he wanted to get back together so i didn’t say anything" then i was like "you're gorgeous but u got no brains, he’s gonna put u through the same sh!! it again" we didn’t talk for 2 days after that then i texted her on whatsapp "hi hru do u still remember me?" she said "yeah I remember u im so happy u texted me" we texted for like 30 mins, then she stopped replying we haven’t talked in a week im wondering if it’s cuz of her boyfriend that we can’t talk anymore im so fuc!!! king annoyed with her boyfriend, i don’t even wanna talk to her anymore cuz of her boyfriend

[HollyK21]

I feel like you may be too emotionally involved in her relationship. I’ve been there before, so I get it, but having too many feelings regarding someone else’s relationship almost always backfires. You are new to the situation, so you may not be privy to their break-ups and make-ups, their fights, or anything else that makes the situation toxic. But it’s her situation, not yours, and she clearly has to go through more with him until she decides she’s had enough.


As friends, all we can really do is be there to listen, and maybe offer some advice but even that can feel like a waste of breath if she always goes back. I personally have learned to reserve my energy and care, along with not having big emotions over whatever is going on. If it’s a volatile situation and I fear for her safety then that’s a whole different story. Aside from that though, I do not get involved, and you shouldn’t either. This is a moderately new friendship, but if you care about it then you should consider having a conversation with her about your feelings before going straight to the block button, because that’s kind of avoidant in nature. Try not to be angry with him, because at the end of the day she should still be her own person and able to make her own choices. If he controls that at any capacity then your grievance should be with her for allowing it.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

@HollyK21

Better. Now extend that same consideration to men and you'll have it made.

[HollyK21]

You’re joking right?

[HollyK21]

If this is about the shit you said yesterday, then you don’t know what you’re talking about. As you can see, I almost always write “a book”. I’m very considerate with my answers, yet you want to be confrontational because you feel like I wasn’t empathetic. Is he ever empathetic to women? No. He posts damn near every day and men almost always comment calling him out. You don’t have that energy for them or any other male under that post. I wonder why.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

Nope

[HollyK21]

I don’t know dude. I’m cool with you but coming at me how you did was just so unnecessary. Did you even read through my comment? Or did you just see the length of it and write it off as lacking empathy? We can go back of that post if you really want to go there dude. But if you do, I require that you point out exactly was non-empathetic and how it was that.

[Ariesman81Nshiiit]

I'd rather not argue with a brat

[HollyK21]

You’re one to talk.

[NoDecision]

I would say you were getting your hopes up in dealing with someone you really don't know that much about, nor the situations she is in. Just remember, she could tell you anything, but it doesn't mean that it is true. If it were me, I would do a hard pass, because a person can not move on without getting over a prior relationship, and an iffy one at that.

[Anonymous]

This is what happens when children date. If you have anything at all to do with her, other than just casual sex making sure you don't get attached, you'll be dumped as soon as she finds someone she likes better. So if you do anything but have sex with this beautiful girl, you deserve what you get. Come to think of it, you might get something from her anyway. LOL

[s0j7e3zyxc8v0]

what r u even talking about? Wtf did u read it with? we’re not dating we’re just friend, I suggest u read it again

[Opinion Owner]

You're not friends. You might think you are, but you're not. You want to date her. You might pretend you don't, but you do. Point is she's not worth it as a girlfriend or a platonic friend. She's someone who will waste your time and energy.

[s0j7e3zyxc8v0]

i really wanna know how the hell u interpreted my question

[WhitneySnow]

It probably is because of him. But if you block her you foreclose any chance that she might reach out to you again.

[lilBigPotato]

What's the point of blocking her? She's not doing anything. If you're unhappy with the situation just talk about it like 2 adults 🤷‍♀️

[happyoldman]

You don't even need to block her just take a step back stop texting first and focus on yourself

[Anonymous]

Nope. Ask her why she stopped. She knows. We don’t.

[s0j7e3zyxc8v0]

i literally just asked ‘should I block her?’ i only wanted ur opinions, that’s all stop writing all this bullshit, ofc u don’t know