Why do some family members ignore boundaries and blame my crystals for nightmares?

[Kassandra1994]

So yesterday I had a cousin visiting and she came over at my house. Now in my home I have crystals , plants and candles for spiritual protection so yesterday morning my cousin decided to it was a great idea to just touch and grab my spiritual stuff only because she's family now looking at my crystals and ask questions I dont mind but to have the nerve to take stuff and I used it for protection its just weird and ripping my plants leafs which is very disrespectful. Why can't some family members just respect basic simple bounderies?

Today my cousin called me angry that it is my fault she had sleep parálisis and nightmares because of my crystals which her dreams had nothing to do with my objects and I have no control about what she dreams or if she has sleep parálisis. Weird!

Updates

15 h

Also she mention that she will be scheduling appointment with her religous church priest that is my fault.

[HollyK21]

I have a cousin who got really into crystals and tarot during covid lockdown, as she also considered herself on a spiritual journey. I remember several arguments happening between her and her sister, because she’d move or hide the tarot cards along with moving crystals from one place to another. Sometimes family just don’t understand, they’ve only known one way their whole lives.


In any case, maybe it would be wise to confront your cousin and set a boundary about touching your things. Who knows, maybe things got lost in translation, like although to said your fine with her looking at your items, it wasn’t clear not to touch them. Taking the crystals entirely though is completely out of line, and if she can’t respect your items or your space then she can’t be around any of it.

[Nikki1989]

Blaming your crystals for someone else’s nightmares is a brilliant, manipulative deflection tactic.

[Staximus]

She shouldn’t be destroying your plants and fiddling with your stuff

[Anonymous]

Serves her right for touching your stuff

[Kassandra1994]

Are you a christian?