I believe that some curses are real, but I don't think that is the case with you and your family. It's probably more a situations of bad luck.
However with as crazy as this world is right now I'm concerned about the thought of having children regardless of whether they are a boy or girl.
But if you choose to have children, don't let your expense or your families experiences make you want a daughter any less. If you have children be grateful for the blessing of children.
I’m so sorry this has been so prevalent in your family! I can’t begin to think to tell you what you should or should not do but I hope this stops with you no matter what you choose to do
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No I don't believe in curses but what I do believe in is that a lot of times when we think of something we call it to happen it's like I used to work with a guy and he used to say little devil all the time to everybody little Diablo and I got sick of it because I told him dude quit saying that around me you're calling the Diablo and he would do some of the meanest crap to people that used to piss me off it's just like if you want something and it comes from your heart you can get it it's all energy we are all energy we are all connected positive and negative it's a fine line good bad it's a fine line pain an ecstasy it's a fine line love and hate is a fine line how old were you when you found out about the rest of the women in your family and how many times did you think about it and then you did not want it to happen to you I'm just curious I shouldn't even be asking you this like this I don't want you to take it wrong I can almost feel you right now saying that's not what happened I'm not saying that the moment I read this and then you said you're afraid that if you had a daughter my heart fell to my stomach and that tells me something I'm not really saying but I want to say the right way I should just delete this and start over but I'm not going to I think if you have a daughter you're going to be a badass mother and you will protect her and even your son if you have one I say get it out of your mind until the day you have a daughter are you sure she is old enough for her to understand please do not look at this answer as a negative it is really a positive I'm just not saying it right
Children are our biggest fears and our biggest blessings. As a father having raised my kids was and still is the biggest joy in my life. They were also the biggest fear as they grew up. The fear of someone or some thing happening to them that I could not control. But with all of the fears the Joys out weight them many times over.
No one deserves to be hurt by someone else especially a child. There are some sick people in this world but even without having kids those sick people are still here. Do not let them win by letting the fear they give off with their sickness control you or your choices. You are stronger than that...
Pray, and watch who is around your children. That was also concern with my parents not knowing who was with their children while my working. Even if you think they are at school you heard stories of children skipping school bad things likely to happen. But home school and if the mother is there , you can’t skip school you live in the same house. So your always protected , from child predators, bullies etc:
what part of the world did your family hail from originally if you dont mind me asking? My father's father's side had a string of poetic greek tragedies of wars and losing their loved ones. Its complicated and I'd rather not get into it. But Grandfather suffered the lost of both parents young then suffered the loss of a little sister and then the loss of his first born son and wife before he went. His father suffered the loss of a brother and wife so he ended up drinking himself to death at the end of WW1. My father's side the men always wound up alone. So you can imagine my anxiety at 32, never married thinking I'm going to die alone too. Both sides have links to the paranormal but thankfully for me a powerful prayer and ritual was done as a child that ridded me of voices. Thankfully I never saw anything. I do know some of my relatives have seen the dead... not pleasant.
I'm sorry this happened to you and pray it doesn't happen if you have a daughter I'm sorry I believe curses can happen with families, I have a late Aunt Rose who had a talent that she could see things happen before they do and sure enough, I can tell something will happen before it does, any guy who rapes a woman or rape happens
to any guy, child, they should all serve a lengthy sentence in prison or be given the death penalty
I can’t say for sure. Every rekative on my mother’s side was raped or molested. On my father’s side, no sexual abuse but about half were physically abused (beaten). It’s very prevalent and I’ve been teaching my daughters about it all their lives.
I always try to find a rational explanation for things first, but some things are just too weird to be a coincidence. I believe fate and destiny are real. Every event is interconnected and planned out for us. Nothing is an accident.
So in simple terms, YES. But as history has shown, there's always some way to break the curse.
I honestly don't mean to be insensitive but I think the real-life statistics make what you described more likely than unlikely.
Sexual assault has some weird statistics. Like growing up in poverty increases the chances exponentially.
no because the father would be thrown in jail for murdering the bastard who ever tried doing that to his daughter or at least that what would happen to me if i was ever in that situation. the bastard would be dead in a pile of dirt and i would be behind bars if anyone ever tried attacking my daughter
You gals need to take up martial arts!
woww that is scary
i feel sorry for that honey
No such thing as curses.
It's not a curse. Live your life.
There is no such thing as a curse.
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