Does he like me? he kissed me but has a girlfriend :(

[jojob6215]

i really really like my friend from uni but he recently got a girlfriend. the thing is he flirts with me quite a lot and we get on really well. before he got his new girlfriend I got a bit drunk round at his place and we ended up just cuddled up in his bed. nothing happened but he seemed to be hugging me quite a lot. he even put his arm round me when we were sitting on the sofa and held my hand (by the way I don't know if I'm reading to much into this). when I went home for christmas I couldn't stop thinking about him, trying to work out if he liked me or not. that was when he got his new gf. I don't really know much about her, he doesn't like talking about her to me. we got back after christmas and everything seemed to be fine, we were still flirting quite a lot, almost as if he didn't have a gf. then last week I went over to his flat to watch a couple of films. we just hung out in his room. it was quite late and I'd already missed the last bus back home, so I ended up staying over. we both shared his single bed and we cuddled up quite intimately for most of the night. then in the middle of the night we got woken up by his flatmates drunkenly coming back. we both couldn't get back to sleep for quite a while and he started to run his hands through my hair and stroke my cheek and lips, I was already kind of stroking his back and neck. then he moved so that our faces were right up against each other and he suddenly kissed me! I pushed him away immediately though becasue he has a gf. things got a little bit awkward after that he didn't really speak to me properly for a few days, eventually he said it was because he was embarrassed and annoyed at himself but he seems reluctant to talk about it. I'm so confused by the whole thing but don't want to make things worse by asking him as we''ve only just really started talking again. I don't really know what to do! it's just that it was almost as if he'd forgotten he had a gf...

i'm sorry I've rambled on for so long, but any advice you have would be greatly appreciated1

[babygirl2]

omg seriously I think you have to take the chance with him, it seams to me that he cares a lot for you but has no idea how to show it because he's so scared that you might not return the same feelings. That night when he kissed you, I think he was taking a chance but when you pushed him away, he lost all his courage again and I think he though that you just didn't feel the same way back.

me and a friend (I guess you can call him that) were the same way, minus the girlfriend. I kept rejecting him and never told him that I liked him just asmuch as I hear he liked me. He tired to show me how he felt but I rejected him many times. I regret it ever since, from time to time I still see him and it seams that there something there but no I just feel like I can never get the chance back again.

so my advice to you is that, you should really ask him why he kissed you and made that move. You never know until you try. And it seams to me that you like this guy very much. I wouldn't want you going through the same thing that I went through but cause it hurts more never knowing and always wondering "what if?"

so take the chance and I hope that everything will work out for you and this one guy... I have a feeling it will C:

[bingy7]

i would think that its hard to be even friends with this guy, in a way this guys was weak at the heat of the monent like some other guys. like the nite you both were in the bed together...like helllo!..you both would think it would happen or somehting wouldn't go down...i would of slept on the floor! you know have respect for his gf. despite all of that, just slowly leave him, don't really contact him or see him. it might happen again in the future even though you guys agree on not having anything to do with each other. If he was really interested in you he would of went beyond all measures to ask you out and be with you. he seems like he is just doing it out of satisfaction!

[dsdory400]

1st off, sounds like fun spending time with him. Who doesn't love a good cuddling. 2nd, why would you want a guy who "forgets" he has a girlfriend? No matter how good he is if he forgot he had a girlfriend when he kissed you then he might forget that your his girlfriend if yall start dating. But on the other hand, if yall do date then you ask him how he simply forgot about his girlfriend when he kissed you, if he even forgot. He could just be dating the other girl because he's a guy and you know how they can be...But he may like you loads more then he likes her.

[DrJones]

Sounds pretty simple: he's into you but he has a girlfriend.

If he has the courage to break up with the gf, then maybe you can try dating him. If he has the courage to stop making out with you, go back to his gf, and tell you wtf he was thinking, then maybe you can be friends.

If he doesn't do either, then he's just proven to you that he'll repeatedly sleep with someone else when he's in a committed relationship. Do you want someone like that as your boyfriend?

[Wolverine]

Are you kidding? He has a girlfriend, and he winds up snuggled up with you in his bed...and then kisses you! And you're wondering whether or not he likes you? What happened to dignity and self-esteem? If he does that with one, what makes you different? Didn't you say that HE JUST GOT this girlfriend (aka brand-new, showroom finish)? So, what part of that don't you find disgusting enough to keep your distance?!

[darkangelina]

Amen

[Atomizer]

I think that he's a cheater.

If he has a girlfriend, he should not be cuddling with, or kissing other girls.

I suggest you back away from this guy. Stay in occasional contact, but back off a bit. This will keep you in his mind, but will also allow you to clear your head.

[Anonymous]

ya if he has a girlfriend he must respect his girlfriend nd not sleeping or even kissing with other gal! he is a bad man. what I think is you might want to ask him he want you or her?! either 1 not both!

[applelag]

i think you should ask him where you 2 are because you do not want to get hurt if he is just using you. its good you stopped him from kissing you don't let things get 2 far cause then he will know he can do what he wants ...ask him

[Anonymous]

I think he can't be trusted. If he cheated on his girlfriend he would cheat on you. It's a pattern. Maybe he just wants you for sex since his girlfriend won't give him any.

[AceGirl]

He's a player, simple as that. I don't think you should get involed with this guy because if he kissed you when he had a Girlfriend And you eventually date him its pretty clear that he may cheat on you like he did with his GF

[Norcalbabe09]

He sounds like a real PLAYER, you should steer as far away from this guy. Honestly, if his girlfriend finds out, it might be a whole lot of drama you don't want to have; I know I wouldn't.

[tyreeth]

I would either suggest friends with benefits or ask him to either choose you or his gf.

[selectivethought]

It's within reason, I'm convinced of it. :))

[darkangelina]

its not a good sign.