His girlfriend won't let him talk to me!?

[XxBunniLuvXx]

So my best friend and his girlfriend have dated since December, they broke up about a month ago and now they're dating again. But this time she won't let him talk to me, hang out with him, etc. She doesn't know me and she doesn't like me because of how close me and her boyfriend, aka my best friend, are. She goes on his profile, she doesn't trust him and she has jealousy issues. I messaged her on Facebook and we talked. She admitted to have trust issues with him and jealousy problems. She doesn't like that I'm prettier than her and really close to him, so she won't let me do anything with him unless she's around. She said she also didn't like him because she thought I liked him, and she was right. I told her the truth and she told me to stop liking him and to f*** off. I'm not the type to be all over a guy who has a girlfriend, plus he's my best friend and the bestest friend I've ever had, I wouldn't ruin that. I've tried telling her that I wouldn't do anything beyond the friend zone but she still insists that I back off. He cheated on her ONCE and never did it again. I understand where she's coming from but she needs to learn to trust him again and not control who he talks to. How do I get her to let him talk to me and hang out with me again?

[Prof_Don]

Frankly you can't do much here besides somehow get in contact with your friend (or get someone else that knows him to)...

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...and tell him to stop being f*cking whipped.

Frankly...yes, he cheated. Yes, they're still together.

HOWEVER...the relationship cannot consist of him being on parole and her being the parole officer.

Their relationship isn't healthy, and HE needs to either end the relationship, or get his relationship back to normal.

[prettyhot53]

Normally I agree with what you say, But I wouldn't let him talk to her either. She just admitted that she likes him. Theirs nothing wrong with men having friends but if she's anything like me I can pick up on these things and maybe she can too. I don't think whipped has anything to do with it, He's respecting his relationship with his girl.

[ScorpiDavid]

@prettyhot53 one problem with that. Even if she has feelings for her friend, if he is going to cheat he doesn't need her for that. Who hasn't had feelings for a friend over the years. If she can't trust in him to stay faithful, feelings on one end or not, there is no point in continuing the relationship. It's not healthy for it to stay that way. However to the girl who wrote this. You also need remember that he is going along with it. While it hurts, you can't lay all blame on the girlfriend. Playing into her whims perpetuates. He needs to spend time with both of you at First to show her how safe it is. Give her time and she may learn her fears are unfounded.