He won’t let any guys talk to me alone and we’re not even dating?

[Anonymous]

Every time he knows I’m in a room by myself and he either sees or heard that another guy is in the same room as me, he immediately has to barge in and see what’s going on. Interpreting the conversation and putting the attention onto him. And he also checks in on me to see if there’s someone in the room with me. He only does that when I’m alone with a guy but when it’s at an event and there’s a lot of people, he doesn’t do anything. He just sits and stares at the guy having a conversation with me and the others. He does approach me at times to communicate but I just feel like he doesn’t want any other guys to talk to me? And we’re not even dating, so I don’t understand the behaviour? Also he starts hating on the guys who approach me. When I approach him he gets very happy and communicates with me. But yeah it’s strange, any thoughts?

[OlderAndWiser]

This is the classic handwriting on the wall, there's your sign, beware! Do you really see a future with this guy? I ask because, if he is courting you, he is showing you his BEST behavior. Start dating and it will get worse. Guaranteed.

If you aren't dating, why are you tolerating this behavior? Why are you giving him this much access and control of your life? Are you THAT desperate for attention from a guy?

[Asker]

I never said I was desperate for his attention, this is at a workplace so I have to be professional. I just came on here and ask a question regarding to his behaviour since he often does it, doesn’t mean I crave his attention? I’m just confused by his actions and why he does it

[strateguy632]

then do not close the door of the room keep the door open and do not be alone with other men.

[Asker]

The doors are always open, what I meant by barging in is why him walking into the room. This is at a workplace, and all doors are kept open

[EmmaMary]

Sounds like yet another pathetic lowlife... Definitely a huge Red Flag.