I met this guy in the fall semester of our freshman year of college. We had all the same classes and he would occasionally tried to talk to me. He even tried to invite me to a party once but I didn't go. I always thought he was really attractive except I realized that he was kind of socially awkward and bad at having conversation. He also stared at me a lot...
When spring semester started, I found out we had no classes together. I would still see him on campus and he would occasionally try to talk to me. I still had a crush on him but I figured that nothing would happen between us since neither of us was going to make the first move... But then a few days ago, he messaged me on Facebook and asked for my number. When we started texting, he asked me out to the movies or to grab food. I chose a movie. We kept texting after that even though he was a really slow responder. I got a response every hour at the earliest.
Since it was raining the night of the movie, he wanted to know if I still wanted to go and suggested grabbing food instead if I didn't. I agreed but he when he finally got around to coming to my dorm, I said it was too late for food so he asked to go outside on campus just to talk and hang out.
We ended up hanging out for two hours with a bit of cuddling. I was trying to make conversation, but he was really bad at reciprocating so I went back to my dorm with him instead. We ended up watching a movie and cuddling on my bed. When my roommate shut off the lights and fell asleep, he leaned in and we started hooking up, doing everything but having sex. He told me he thought I was hot for a while. We fell asleep cuddling.
The next morning, he left while I was in the bathroom and texted me saying he figured I had class. He was responding even slower than usual the entire day. Now, the day after that night, I haven't gotten a single response.
Did I get played? Why did he wait until now to message me if he thought I was attractive for a while?
When spring semester started, I found out we had no classes together. I would still see him on campus and he would occasionally try to talk to me. I still had a crush on him but I figured that nothing would happen between us since neither of us was going to make the first move... But then a few days ago, he messaged me on Facebook and asked for my number. When we started texting, he asked me out to the movies or to grab food. I chose a movie. We kept texting after that even though he was a really slow responder. I got a response every hour at the earliest.
Since it was raining the night of the movie, he wanted to know if I still wanted to go and suggested grabbing food instead if I didn't. I agreed but he when he finally got around to coming to my dorm, I said it was too late for food so he asked to go outside on campus just to talk and hang out.
We ended up hanging out for two hours with a bit of cuddling. I was trying to make conversation, but he was really bad at reciprocating so I went back to my dorm with him instead. We ended up watching a movie and cuddling on my bed. When my roommate shut off the lights and fell asleep, he leaned in and we started hooking up, doing everything but having sex. He told me he thought I was hot for a while. We fell asleep cuddling.
The next morning, he left while I was in the bathroom and texted me saying he figured I had class. He was responding even slower than usual the entire day. Now, the day after that night, I haven't gotten a single response.
Did I get played? Why did he wait until now to message me if he thought I was attractive for a while?
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