Girlfriend made me choose between female friend and her...

[Anonymous]

which is no problem for me because I simply chose her and broke my friendship with my bff who happens to be a female. Here is the story : it was a Friday night and I asked my best friend (Kayla) to hang out with me (my girlfriend was not with me that night) basically me and my friend hung out at the park, and when my girlfriend asked me what's up lets chill, I told her the honest trust that I'm with my friend so I cant. so she got very mad at me and she thinks I don't love her. she thinks I put my female friend first. I understand why she is upset and I am going to make it up to her. I told her that my friendship with kayla is now over because I just wanna be with my girlfriend and I don't wanna loose her. the problem is she is ignoring me now, I really want her to talk to me badly I love her so much . some people may say I'm stupid for choosing my girlfriend over my female friend or some people may judge the choice I made. to be honest I'm glad with the choice I made. Please do not tell me to dump my girlfriend I really love her so much. (if you were in my shoes you that's how I fel about my girl) .. any suggestions I can do to make her happy and to make her feel special? thanks

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[3boys4me]

Ugh you're a terrible friend. Unless your female friend was really crossing some sorta line w you there was no reason to end your friendship. She was your best friend? Geez w friends like these who needs enemies? Lol. If it were me I would have set some boundaries everyone could be happy with so that I could keep everyone in my life. If you and your friend were being respectful and you gave your girlfriend no real reason to be jealous then she just sounds super insecure. Do you really wanna be w someone who does not trust you? You just gave your girlfriend an incredible amount of power within your relationship. Now she's gonna feel like she can get away w anything w you since you so easily just dumped your "BFF" for her.

[Afiya12]

Tell her and show her in the best way you find possible I put my boyfriend in that position once and he chose me over her but after we broke up he became friends with her again but he didn't make it up to me good but I wish he had

[Asker]

your the jealous type too? (its OK if you are its understandable)

[Afiya12]

I guess it not being insecure its being worried about if you will get cheated on

[Anonymous]

It depends. I can see her being jealous because you shouldn't choose another girl (besides family) over your girlfriend but that doesn't mean you can't have female friends either.

[sisterray]

Tell her to stop being selfish.