Hi. I have an interesting situation I need advice on.I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half, his father is a nudist, although he always is clothed whenever I am around, so I never really see it.
Well in a few months I am going on vaction with my boyfriend, his parents, his 2 brothers and his sister...however the resort we are going to is a nudist/nude friendly type of resort.
From what my boyfriend told me, the policy of the resort is that all male guests must be nude when outside of their hotel room, but ladies have the option of being nude or dressed (apparently to stop guys from coming just to watch and since guys are usually more open with their bodies).
So I'm conflicted about what to do, I would like to stay in a bikini or clothed, but would this be weird? I feel bad my boyfriend and his brothers have no choice but to take everything off while I walk around clothed...but I don't know if I would really feel comfortable nude, especially in front of his 2 brothers?
I talked to his siblings, his sister said she too will probably stay in a bathing suit or clothed...his brothers obviously have no choice, but they both said they would be okay being nude (although they didn't seem too thrilled or happy about it). I know it might be a little weird to see his brothers and father nude, but rules are rules. Still I feel like it would be best if his brothers and father didn't see me nude, it would seem uncomfortable.
What does everyone think would be the best? I feel kind of bad my boyfriend and his brothers have no choice but to show their stuff, but still I think I should be like his siter and keep something on. Although it feels unfair that they guys have to strip down, I understand the rules and even though his brothers will be nude in front of me, it might be best if I keep something on? I'm conflicted.
Well in a few months I am going on vaction with my boyfriend, his parents, his 2 brothers and his sister...however the resort we are going to is a nudist/nude friendly type of resort.
From what my boyfriend told me, the policy of the resort is that all male guests must be nude when outside of their hotel room, but ladies have the option of being nude or dressed (apparently to stop guys from coming just to watch and since guys are usually more open with their bodies).
So I'm conflicted about what to do, I would like to stay in a bikini or clothed, but would this be weird? I feel bad my boyfriend and his brothers have no choice but to take everything off while I walk around clothed...but I don't know if I would really feel comfortable nude, especially in front of his 2 brothers?
I talked to his siblings, his sister said she too will probably stay in a bathing suit or clothed...his brothers obviously have no choice, but they both said they would be okay being nude (although they didn't seem too thrilled or happy about it). I know it might be a little weird to see his brothers and father nude, but rules are rules. Still I feel like it would be best if his brothers and father didn't see me nude, it would seem uncomfortable.
What does everyone think would be the best? I feel kind of bad my boyfriend and his brothers have no choice but to show their stuff, but still I think I should be like his siter and keep something on. Although it feels unfair that they guys have to strip down, I understand the rules and even though his brothers will be nude in front of me, it might be best if I keep something on? I'm conflicted.
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