They've invited me to go abroad on vacation with them a few months before corona happened. Obviously, we didn't go, but now they're opening it back up for Summer 2021. I don't want to hurt my boyfriend's feelings, but I absolutely do not want to go because I haven't been able to forgive how they've repeatedly mistreated me. I'm wondering how this will affect my boyfriend because he's someone I want to marry and I see a future with him. I just can't handle how my family treats him so generously versus how I'm the unwanted girlfriend who has to put up with his parents' immaturity. What do you think?
Should I go on vacation with my boyfriend's parents?
They've invited me to go abroad on vacation with them a few months before corona happened. Obviously, we didn't go, but now they're opening it back up for Summer 2021. I don't want to hurt my boyfriend's feelings, but I absolutely do not want to go because I haven't been able to forgive how they've repeatedly mistreated me. I'm wondering how this will affect my boyfriend because he's someone I want to marry and I see a future with him. I just can't handle how my family treats him so generously versus how I'm the unwanted girlfriend who has to put up with his parents' immaturity. What do you think?