She friend zoned me but now she misses me?

[huss11]

A girl I was interested in about a month ago friend zoned me. I told it her it was her loss and moved on. We limited contact, but then I told her id like to hang out and only as friends. But when we hung out strictly as friends she was being more flirty than before, even rubbing her leg on mine during our movie, touching me when laughing etc. I ignored her movements and told her to stop touching me and I was being more ruthless. She got the message that I don't need her and that I moved on, and she is posting sad relationship pictures on instagram and Facebook. What is going on in her head? Should I talk to her about it?

[Sib999]

It's like they say... you don't miss your water 'till the well runs dry. It sucks that she didn't become interested until now that you've moved on. I guess she has to understand things won't always happen just how/when she wants them to.

If you're still interested in her, this is the perfect moment. She'll be missing you and will surely respond if you restart contact/flirting. Otherwise, you've got the right to just let her go.

Basically I guess you can decide the outcome of this. Whatever you decide will be fine as long as you don't play games just to make fun of her/get back at her or something like that.

[Carebear8593]

She wants what she can't have. You giving her a hard time (which kudos for you for doing) is driving her crazy. She didn't realize that she was interested in you until you backed off. Congrats you reeled her in.

Now if you are still interested in her than this is the chance to talk to her about it. If you are not interested in her than you should tell her that you want to be just friends

[laceyz565]

I think she's just playing games. She doesn't want you because she wants you. She wants you because she can't have you which makes her want you. If you told her you liked her again I bet she would act the opposite again. You don't need a girl like that move on.

[calialltheway1993]

Well said

[Theguyoverthere]

Rejection hits girls hard! Real hard. Girls are used to having guys hang all over them so when they see that a guy can actually reject them it makes them crazy. Plus she is probably the type to want what she cannot have. Basically if you were to get back together with her she'd start friend zoning you very quickly after knowing she was able to get you back. She's still a child unfortunately.

[Xlarok]

There are a few possibilities:

1. She might have realized she had feelings for you.

2. She wants to find a way to get your attention back on her (friend or not)

3. She might have been flirting just to re-ignite the interest you had in her so she could have you back. I not sure if she still wants to friend zone you it depends on the girl.

I hope it helps!

[UncleScrooge]

She just wants attention. I recommend you deny her.

[Account]

Awesome account name. Carl Barks ftw.

[UncleScrooge]

Agreed; Barks is the best!

[Popnlock]

Yep and that's why girls end up with jerks because all girls want a guy with a back bone who treats them crappy

[cheesesteak7]

"What is going on in her head?"

Question of the ages...

[calialltheway1993]

Lol

[Trendii]

Yes you should definitely talk to her about it and ask why she friend zoned you and then flirted with you afterward, maybe she just likes playing games. But it's wrong

[Account]

She doesn't really miss you. She misses your attention.

[Anonymous]

laceyz565 is pretty much spot on.

This girl is like so many, many, many, many, many *gasping for air* many, many, many, many other girls.

An attention wh*re.

[Opinion Owner]

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[1inmillion]

Forget that crack hoe and move on my brother