I hate my boyfriend smoking weed. What should I do? (Page 2)

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Me and my boyfriend have been together 8 months now and I love him more than anything, but I hate the fact he smokes weed with his friends and it makes me so angry and annoyed. I don't care about his friends smoking it or my college friends smoking it either, and I don't even mind being in the same room as his friends when they smoke it, it just bothers me that my boyfriend smokes weed. He had been telling me it's not that harmful and that it's not even a drug and it is, it;s class B, and I'm just concerned about his welfare such as his lungs or what it could do long term, such as paranoia (which he already has anyway and he gets easily jealous) and mental health. He had his first joint when he was 12/13 and he is now 18, and before we went out he used to smoke it everyday, all the time, but now he is with me he only smokes it a few times a month when he goes to see his friends - I just hate watching him smoking a bong, however, I prefer being there when he smokes it so I know how high he's getting and I'm not sat wondering and getting annoyed about it. He has also taken drugs this time last year, cocaine, mcat, phet. I told him how proud I was of him that he didn't do that anymore, and when I found out he had come round to mine stoned, I was disappointed, because I don't want my boyfriend smoking weed. However by the time I realized he did it I had already fallen in love with him. I'm not critising anyone who smokes it, I just don't like smoking in general at all, and my boyfriend told me he was sorry that I he did something I didn't like. Although, I asked him if he would stop if I was to ask him to, and he said he would stop when he wants to, I wouldn't ask him to stop anyway, but he says that one day he will. My friends don't understand how I put up with it because they wouldn't go out with someone who smoked weed. What should I do?

swastiksy · Answer

Why don't you research about weed first

30121997Arun · Answer

Left him  I didn't smoke be with me

WalterRadio · Answer

Dump him now.

Anonymous · Answer

Tell him " Me or the Weed" which will it be?

joeorjackorjim · Answer

Shoot him. Shoot him dead

TH3TROLL3R · Answer

Let him roll and smoke another blunt

wolfking21 · Answer

Start smoking with him

kaskas19 · Answer

Dump him

Anonymous · Answer

Deal. Only queens don't smoke dope

Anonymous · Answer

I wish I had a caring woman in my life like you.

Walrus_au · Answer

find a better guy

BonnieBunny · Answer

SMOKE WEED EVERYDAY

2opaz · Answer

Break up with him

vald9inches · Answer

leave him lol

NovissimumVirorum · Answer

Start smoking meth

Revolver_ · Answer

Do nothing

Nachowedgie · Answer

Break up

Anonymous · Answer

Tell him?

Anonymous · Answer

Break up.

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