Questions: Family & Friends

Cause i i got none. I went to meetups a few times before covid happened. I might try that again but all my friends i grew up with either have families, full time jobs or both and i can't hang with them.

Which kid would you rather have? A child of your own blood who was an utter disappointment and failure, no matter what you did or how hard you tried to raise them, who fought you every step of the way?

Or an adopted child, who looks nothing like you, isn't the same ethnicity as you, and is the opposite gender of you, but is everything you can have hoped for and more?

EXAMPLE 1: You have a 15 year old daughter conceived of your own blood, and they look like you and/or the other parent. Regardless of your parenting skills, they are lazy, greedy, spoiled, entitled, narcissistic, a drama queen, abusive, manipulative, disloyal, and always hurting others, but claiming to be the victim. They are a constant marijuana and tobacco smoker. They can't even pass remedial, "special-learner" classes in school, and want to join OnlyFans when they turn 18, despite not being the least bit attractive or healthy.

EXAMPLE 2: You have a 15 year old adopted daughter. Regardless of your parenting skills, they are a black belt in martial arts (karate, tae kwon do, or jiu jitsu), the top student in their school, on course to graduate early, have won awards for youth science contests, is saving their virginity for marriage, and is overall a kind, helpful caring human being.

You can only choose one. Which one is better for you?