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If you were to have kids, would you rather have a natural child who was a disappointment, or an adopted child who was everything you ever wanted?

Which kid would you rather have? A child of your own blood who was an utter disappointment and failure, no matter what you did or how hard you tried to raise them, who fought you every step of the way?

Or an adopted child, who looks nothing like you, isn't the same ethnicity as you, and is the opposite gender of you, but is everything you can have hoped for and more?

EXAMPLE 1: You have a 15 year old daughter conceived of your own blood, and they look like you and/or the other parent. Regardless of your parenting skills, they are lazy, greedy, spoiled, entitled, narcissistic, a drama queen, abusive, manipulative, disloyal, and always hurting others, but claiming to be the victim. They are a constant marijuana and tobacco smoker. They can't even pass remedial, "special-learner" classes in school, and want to join OnlyFans when they turn 18, despite not being the least bit attractive or healthy.
If you were to have kids, would you rather have a natural child who was a disappointment, or an adopted child who was everything you ever wanted?
If you were to have kids, would you rather have a natural child who was a disappointment, or an adopted child who was everything you ever wanted?
If you were to have kids, would you rather have a natural child who was a disappointment, or an adopted child who was everything you ever wanted?
EXAMPLE 2: You have a 15 year old adopted daughter. Regardless of your parenting skills, they are a black belt in martial arts (karate, tae kwon do, or jiu jitsu), the top student in their school, on course to graduate early, have won awards for youth science contests, is saving their virginity for marriage, and is overall a kind, helpful caring human being.
If you were to have kids, would you rather have a natural child who was a disappointment, or an adopted child who was everything you ever wanted?
If you were to have kids, would you rather have a natural child who was a disappointment, or an adopted child who was everything you ever wanted?
If you were to have kids, would you rather have a natural child who was a disappointment, or an adopted child who was everything you ever wanted?
You can only choose one. Which one is better for you?
If you were to have kids, would you rather have a natural child who was a disappointment, or an adopted child who was everything you ever wanted?
Natural child who's a failure and disappointment.
If you were to have kids, would you rather have a natural child who was a disappointment, or an adopted child who was everything you ever wanted?
Adopted child you can be extremely proud of.
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If you were to have kids, would you rather have a natural child who was a disappointment, or an adopted child who was everything you ever wanted?
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