How can I deal with her Aggression?

[Anonymous]

My sister is one year younger to me, and some years back my mom, me and my sister used to live with my uncle, at that time i was 12 years, my uncle was a nasty man who was also fond of wrestling, so he would ask me and my sister to wrestle with each other in front him, and he would give money to winner, later he started asking us to try to take off each other's underwear, and who removed at first would be the winner , my sister was very aggressive and she would always try to take off my underwear to get the money, but i was a little stronger than to her

but my mom used to take my sister's side and she told her to grab my balls during wrestling and take off my underwear, and she started doing this, she used to grab my balls firmly and then she would pull down my clothes off, uncle and mom used to watch this wrestling, Now we have moved to another house but still my sister wrestle and grabs my balls, she either hit or squeeze it there like before and she don't listen me. how do i make her stop or get back to her? Now she thinks i am weaker to her and she bully me most of the times and my mom still takes her side ! how come i can teach her a lesson?

[Kontrvnote]

This is disgusting. This is sexual assault and your uncle and your mom should be taken to court for doing this for their children. You'll have to learn to defend somehow. But the most disappointing part is that in some cases if you knock her down (which she deserves) there's a chance you can get in trouble for attacking a woman. The society cares more about a female victim than a male victim, that's sad.

[Nikola321]

Well, I suppose u don't wanna hurt her, so just push her off, don't let u come near u enough to do that, or grab her by her arms. If u really wanna etach her a lesson, go for a K. O. :D

[Asker]

@nikola321 What is this K O?

[Nikola321]

knockout

[Asker]

how come?

[Brebaby]

I mean take her to the gym let her box out her frustration I mean there are a bunch of different thingz you can do to help her get rid of that anger so she don't take it out on. You. What are some things she like to do?

[Asker]

@brebaby Well first thing is that I hate my sister ( and my mom too ) they both are bitch ! My Mom used to hate my dad and she don't like me either, she always takes my sister's side even if she is wrong, I am skinny and my sister is bulky and on the top my mom had taught her some tricks about how to ping down boys, she has taught her to grab and squeeze my balls and its really painful, I don't want to take my sister to gym, she will become more stronger and more stubborn there ! she likes dancing and playing tennis !

[elektratbh]

that is sexual assault , please know that its a serious situation...

[Asker]

But how do i deal with her exactly?

[Open2It]

It is sexual assault and you can go to the police. However, you're 18 so you can move out on your own and away from this situation.

[Asker]

@Open2It but don't you think after my dad this house belongs to me and still my mom takes my sister's side and she should move out?

[Asker]

@Open2It And do you think her behaviour can cause damage to my penis or balls seriously?

[Open2It]

Perhaps, I don't know your culture very well. That said, as I see it, you have 3 choices -
1) fight back and get your point across to sister AND mother.
2) move out and away from these crazy people - you can be right or you can be free
3) do nothing about it and live with the situation

This is MHO

[lsksni]

Beat the shit out of her once. If your mom tries to rescue, snap at her too.

I had a similar cousin. So I hospitalised him and his dad (in this case). Broke the kid's arm and his father's nose. They stopped it at once.

[Asker]

what?

[Kdizzle85]

Get an older male figure involved to tell her to stop? It’s not normal behavior from sis, uncle, or Mom.

[Asker]

she is being stubborn as my mom still takes her side and she thinks girls gonna do better than boys

[Kdizzle85]

She’ll definitely listen to an older male figure. He’ll straighten her right out.

But what do you mean she thinks girls gonna do better than boys?

[Asker]

My mom thinks my sister can do better than to me

[Kdizzle85]

Can do better than you how? As a “boyfriend,” in life, etc?

[Kdizzle85]

Anyway, your Mom is wrong.

[Boaz1208]

Show her the back of your hand. You got to keep women in line. They like discipline.

[Landy24]

fight back learn how to fight

[Asker]

i told you my mom takes her side most times, she has become very stubborn

[mattclark242]

I don't know sorry