Questions: Family & Friends

Do guests have a right to privacy when sleeping in the spare room of someone else's house, or does the host maintain the right to enter that room whenever they like without knocking as it's their house?

My asking if this is triggered by a recent event- Last weekend my husband and I stayed over at his brother's house and we were sleeping in their guest room. I Went upstairs first, and while I was lying in the bed the brother suddenly opened the door without knocking. I Found this very impolite, as I could've been changing or something, so he should knock first. I Said this to my husband when he came to bed, but he disagrees with me. He's saying as it's the brother's home he shouldn't have to knock

What's your opinion?

So out of my friend group there’s two of us that drives meaning most of the time they depend on us for outings. I’ve been driving my car constantly for 4 months now and I now feel the pain of filling up my tank every-time. When I get a ride, I usually offer gas money. I’m not begging my friends to give me gas money but from time to time it would feel nice to get even $10.

What are your thoughts?

I am very wary of him because after my mom divorced him when I was 7 due to him being on drugs and abusing her. He stopped contacting us completely. I would hear my mom on the phone calling him, leaving him messages asking him to see us. He'd make promises then never show. Then I finally seen him again when I was 23. Then years later after that. Nothing ever consistent. Calls every once In a blue moon and barks orders like I'm a child stating ," I worry about you. As soon as you get off work go straight home."

Blah blah yet where was this concern years ago. Then he got mad at me for not wishing him a father's day. I haven't wished him a happy fathers day since I was 7. He hasn't been here. Then I addressed it he blamed my mom saying he didn't come around because she remarried after the divorce (she remarried 3 years later). And said he was homeless because of the divorce and blamed my grandma saying she was evil that's why she's dead now. But come on who would want their daughter to stay married to a man using drugs and abusing her? My mom divorced him because she said she found drugs in my stroller from him doing drugs and making deals. She said I could've gotten taken away if the police caught him.

As I told you Kayla is pissed that Karen told her business. We are all neighbors. Anywho Kayla tried to run Karen over 3 days ago 😂🤦🏾‍♀️. Now as I was leaving work yesterday I get a call from Karen all out of breath. Karen said ," me and Kayla just got into a fight!" I'm just like wtf😂🤦🏾‍♀️. She said ," as I was going up the stairs with a hand full of groceries Kayla comes down the steps knowing I'm half way up and bumps me. once kayla's at the bottom of the stairs she says, " you could've said excuse me bitch". Karen then yells ," fuck you bitch you seen me coming up. so fuck you". Then Kayla says ," fuck you , you big mouth ass old ass bitch. You ain't about dat life hoe." Then Karen says, " bitch bring your ass upstairs then since you're so big and bad." Then Kayla leaves with her boyfriend 🤦🏾‍♀️😂