Do you think you have or had emotionally immature parents?

[MissMolody]

[tatianamay]

My parents are extremely immature and fail to act like adults most of the times. My dad and mom are often away doing surgeries. My grandparents practically raised me. From about i was 1 year old to until i was about 3 years, i lived with my grandparents. And after that, i lived with my parents for name sakes, but was away most of the time with my grandparents. That is why my brother and i are extremely close. We have had each others backs since we were kids. I know that i can trust him no matter what. Well, my grandfather is a doctor too, well, was, he is now retired, but he runs cargo shipping and a few other businesses, so growing up, he was away for most of the times too. My grandma and my brother technically raised me.

My parents do not get me, they act on impulse and both of them have control and anger issues. They fight everyday, they've seemed to stop now, but its the definition of a toxic relationship. They just dont get how I've been affected by their condtant fights. They call each other names as well. Its hard, but im moving out as soon as i turn 21.

[Gochogirl]

My father was/is. He's been a very good dad since re-entering my life in adulthood but he wasn't ready to be a dad and ended up not being in the picture for me and my siblings.

[TheBigGuy9]

Look, everyone can get emotional and say things they regret. It’s what happens after such that shows what kind of person you are. People that genuinely say they’re sorry and don’t repeat such behaviors are good people.
For the most part, my parents have been great. I don’t blame any immaturity on them personally. You have to think about when they grew up how things were. How they were taught stuff. The world is constantly changing, so of course some things are going to look certain ways sometimes. I’m at the age where I realize why my parents did what they did and why they ingrained into my head why you should respect your elders.

[Sonorous]

Yep. And my mothers immaturity usually comes out when she's stressed or tired. She then starts exhibiting behaviors that she would condem in others when in her normal state.

[Sonorous]

I do wanna add that she's mature for the most part. It's why I like saying that people's traits or behaviors are immature & not them.

[Carolmille]

I think my parents were grounded emotionally. I feel sound emotionally as an adult and I learnt a ton from them. No regrets there.

[Dontaaaa]

Yeah, can't say I've met anyone emotionally mature really either.

At least not when they have some "fix" on stand by to regulate thier emotions.

Like weed, cigarettes, alcohol and etc...

[Wise4myage]

Yes, well my father sure is.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Oh god yes!!!

[In_Trance]

I don't know, i've never met them