Or just put on 7 layers of make up. Honestly anyone can be beautiful by just putting some clays and chemicals on your face. And I think that's cool because it means you're subject to everyone else's shallow attitude now, so enjoy it while it lasts.
You can work on it. Speak slower. When you're nervous and excited your pitch raises. Nervous guys are thus less attractive because in talking fast trying to impress girls their voice sounds submissive not, slow and deep, portraying a calmness about them that communicates to a girl he's fine with who he is and doesn't need to impress her.
BE FUNNY-how can you tell a person « be funny »? And « CHANGE THE TONE OF YOUR VOICE »... did you come up with this? People should control the tone of their voice? Seriously?
For soneone that loses their shit in front of someone they like sure. But for someone who is used to attracting others, they remsin calm, composed and with the right vocal tonality.
@MusicMayhem losing your normal tone of your voice is not the same as « controlling « the tone of your voice. Go on. Start speaking in a lower/higher voice and try to keep up with this act for months/years to come.
To be blunt-it’s fake. Also if you « try » to be funny A LOT of guys pick up on it and will label you as fake. Because trying is not the same as being funny.
If you’re not then find a partner who is compatible, no need to « fake « your way into a relationship with someone , then you’ll get tired and drop the act. As a result you will be hurt and devastated cause that guy/girl “doesn’t love you anymore “
@Username678 You're right. "Trying" to be funny will result in people picking up on it. Take it from me it is an acquired skill like many things in life. I was a boring guy in the past but worked on it. Now every single girl I date repeatedly tells me I'm really funny. It's getting a bit tiring tbh, perhaps much like guys telling a pretty girl how gorgeous she is. But I'm going to use it to my benefit cause I bloody well earnt it.
The voice is similar. I mentioned it before but if you aren't used to attracting quality people then you'll get very excited when one does take interest in you and raise your pitch. But if you're used to attracting others you'll stay calm. It's not like we all have just 1 tone of voice. It varies depending on the situation. The key is being aware of when your tonality could be used for the better in a way you have used many times before.
@MusicMayhem yeah. When you meet someone. But you have to kept your attraction coming. Not like you’re going to control your pitch on every single date. I would just go mad if instead of simply talking I would have to control my voice all the time.
Eventually it becomes automatic. Think about a police officer. They speak with an authorative tone of voice. They don't speak like that in their day to day lives all the time. When they just start out they need to learn to command respect. After practice it becomes more natural. When you first learnt a skill you had to think about it but over time it becomes automatic.
good list but no matter how hard i try i still have physically ugly features and body so its not that easy
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i also dont have a nice and open personality i dont like smiling. guess il end up alone and unattractive but whatever and to op you seem like a nice person
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That auburn brown-eyed chick would be beautiful if her jowels weren't sunken in like The Joker.
Anyways, this is a goofy thread. The confidence and famlilial things aside, those are ridiculous.
A very important note concering fashion.
PULL UP YOUR PANTS. Wear a belt if you have to.
" Smiling more "... does NOT happen round my way , smiles are very rare !!
Or just put on 7 layers of make up. Honestly anyone can be beautiful by just putting some clays and chemicals on your face. And I think that's cool because it means you're subject to everyone else's shallow attitude now, so enjoy it while it lasts.
being open minded and interested in what other people do.
Good take 😊 however I prefer someone with a full set of teeth, vs. Just a nice pair 😜
This should say "how to become a cookie cutter socially acceptable human being"
Brilliant. You hit the nail on the head it is exactly what you need I love it. Thanks !!!
Good list but in reality being attractive mostly boils down to genes and money. Just ask Arianna Grande and her always fake pony tails.
This is something that I have accomplished and gotten a lot of friends with this.
I like this. But how does one become funny?
Now that’s the true question?
I can sing REALLY deep but my talking voice is a little bit higher. Thoughts on this one?
You can work on it. Speak slower. When you're nervous and excited your pitch raises. Nervous guys are thus less attractive because in talking fast trying to impress girls their voice sounds submissive not, slow and deep, portraying a calmness about them that communicates to a girl he's fine with who he is and doesn't need to impress her.
None of this will help me. I feel the only way to go is surgery since every last inch of my body is hideous, plus my personality is awful
We still love you, baby.
BE FUNNY-how can you tell a person « be funny »?
And « CHANGE THE TONE OF YOUR VOICE »... did you come up with this? People should control the tone of their voice? Seriously?
Both can be worked on.
yeppp
but either way when you're attracted to someone your voice instantly gets higher (female)/ deeper (male)
For soneone that loses their shit in front of someone they like sure. But for someone who is used to attracting others, they remsin calm, composed and with the right vocal tonality.
@MusicMayhem losing your normal tone of your voice is not the same as « controlling « the tone of your voice.
Go on. Start speaking in a lower/higher voice and try to keep up with this act for months/years to come.
To be blunt-it’s fake. Also if you « try » to be funny A LOT of guys pick up on it and will label you as fake. Because trying is not the same as being funny.
If you’re not then find a partner who is compatible, no need to « fake « your way into a relationship with someone , then you’ll get tired and drop the act. As a result you will be hurt and devastated cause that guy/girl “doesn’t love you anymore “
@Username678 You're right. "Trying" to be funny will result in people picking up on it. Take it from me it is an acquired skill like many things in life. I was a boring guy in the past but worked on it. Now every single girl I date repeatedly tells me I'm really funny. It's getting a bit tiring tbh, perhaps much like guys telling a pretty girl how gorgeous she is. But I'm going to use it to my benefit cause I bloody well earnt it.
The voice is similar. I mentioned it before but if you aren't used to attracting quality people then you'll get very excited when one does take interest in you and raise your pitch. But if you're used to attracting others you'll stay calm. It's not like we all have just 1 tone of voice. It varies depending on the situation. The key is being aware of when your tonality could be used for the better in a way you have used many times before.
@MusicMayhem yeah. When you meet someone. But you have to kept your attraction coming. Not like you’re going to control your pitch on every single date.
I would just go mad if instead of simply talking I would have to control my voice all the time.
Eventually it becomes automatic. Think about a police officer. They speak with an authorative tone of voice. They don't speak like that in their day to day lives all the time. When they just start out they need to learn to command respect. After practice it becomes more natural. When you first learnt a skill you had to think about it but over time it becomes automatic.
good list but no matter how hard i try i still have physically ugly features and body so its not that easy
i also dont have a nice and open personality i dont like smiling. guess il end up alone and unattractive but whatever
and to op you seem like a nice person
same here, hopefully one day I'll have enough money to have plastic surgery
My beard is mad at you. 😂
haha sorry beard
Girls-Wear loose fitting low-cut blouses. If we are preoccupied trying to get a glimpse of nipple, we won't notice if your face is less than ideal.
The only problem is that getting perfectly white teeth can be damaging to the enamel...
3 and 7. WRONG.
3.) Just trim it and keep up with it.
7.) Color doesn't matter, just make sure it belongs.