Why I Am Becoming A Transgender

[Anonymous]

A Female To Male (FTM) transgender

This is not something i actually might do but im considering it and want to hear opinions of others on it.

1. I look like a man

Honest to god , this is real. I am first off about 5'10" , deep voice , hairy legs , my hair isn't very thick or womanly , i get told i have 'big bones' even though I'm not fat think they mean 'large frame'. My face is very feminine and masculine at the same time but would look way better as a male.

My body is curvy but my hips and butt are hideable plus hormones may help with that. I would have to get a breast removal surgery.

2. I feel uncomfortable being a woman

Because i look and act nothing like a woman. Im a dominant person who likes to lead and likes to be in control of things. I also like i explained look nothing like a female which makes me uncomfortable.

I would rather look fully female or fully male , nothing in between.

3. People would respect me more as a man

I have the personality of a male and i am very masculine rather than just tomboy. I think as a man i would get much more respect .

4. I would make an okay looking man

I think i would be an attractive male. Even when i have tried to be an attractive woman , i only get complimented by women gay or straight women. I fit the mold of what women find attractive , so i get more compliments by them. I don't care for that but i think i would love my looks as a male and appreciate that more.

5. Straight men hate masculine and tall women

Almost all of them. Straight men will never want me . Even if i have the 'model look'. Men actually don't find that attractive since they are biologically programmed to find the average woman more attractive so short , curvy , pretty and feminine face , smaller hands feet shoulders .

However i have had some pansexual , bi and even gay men complimenting me telling me i actually look good to them and would make a handsome man. Plus lots of gay men are extremely attractive to me , so i don't mind the attention i get from non-straight men. Just not from the attention i get from women.

People have told me to not mutilate myself and become a transgender. I personally don't think people understand how hard it is to be born a certain gender but look nothing or act nothing like them. Hardly anybody considers me a real lady , rather just a very odd/manly/unattractive looking woman.

I would love to be a male , but i am on the fence about this.

Feel free to give your input but please don't be harsh on me and try to understand my situation.

[9teen]

I'm sorry to break it to you but you won't make an attractive male. Male means you have XY chromosomes, you don't. Correct that to man. Alright, transitions did and all, for nothing, because you'd still have female features and no Y chromosome. I don't know about you but you can't really change your bone structure nor your mentality. Your head would be still smaller than the biological male. Your neck would be still looking feminine, your hands, shoulders, and feet will still have the female structure. Look at those who are ftm, they still look female and they still have female features. The pic you posted, is basically still looking like a woman with a beard and a mustache. It's easy to tell. Let me remind you that biological males have been fueled by an entirely different hormone since their birth, their mentality is way different and you could never be like them. Plus, it would be really hard for you to find someone to date. Straight men want women with a vajaja. Women want a man with a penis. Gay men want a man with a penis.

Since you have a 'model look' as you claim. Sign up for an agency and make something out of it. Plus, your claim that straight men don't like you doesn't make sense. Straight men like every woman with a vajaja. No male is the same, everyone has different preferences and there are men who find the 'model look' more desirable.

[animelover14]

I want to know one thing, have you been diagnosed with gender dysphoria? If you really feel disconnected with the sex you were assigned with at birth then that's a valid reason to transition.

Just because you express your gender that leans more to being masculine than feminine that doesn't conclude that you're transgender. You have to be absolutely sure that you want to transition into looking like a man if that makes you happy and less dysphoric.

Do your research and talk to people. Once you transition it's very, very hard to reverse it. The damage would already be done.

[RolandCuthbert]

I do not understand the whole gay lifestyle transgender thing. So forgive me for my ignorance and in advance for being offensive.

1. I dated a woman from the Netherlands who did not have classic feminine features. I dated her because I thought she was a genuinely nice person. i dated a geneticist from Washington DC. She did not have the most feminine qualities either. But I thought she was the most brilliant person I had ever met.

2. Plenty of women like to lead. Plenty of women like to be in control.

3. You probably should talk to the women of GaG. Most here would say they get no less respect than the average male.

4. I have no idea as to how that factored into your decision.

5. I think it is wrong to do this. I believe it is a sin. But even if you are not Christian and don't care, I don't even think the reasons you listed are even compelling. Hence, "I am on the fence".

Again, I don't understand the gay lifestyle. I don't think I want to. But if you don't feel that with every fiber of your being you should do this, then why do it? It isn't even attempting to be your true authentic self.

[Curmudgeon]

Whatever else our political disputes are, you are spot on here. Mutilating ones gender does not change it.

[Sauron2099]

Don't do it, accept yourself the way you are and you'll find happiness. You might think you want this but maybe you will regret it one day. And as far as straight men go, believe me, I can confidently say that all you have to do is resemble a woman and there will be someone who'll want you, let alone the betas who want to be dominated by women. Don't give up unless you know 100% that you want this because there is no going back from this. And as far as anyone else is concerned, why do you even care what anyone thinks? There isn't enough time to address every single peasant you encounter in life and thus focus on a particular few. And that's that, again think really carefully and with caution.

[Rhonda333]

I'm another one that says "don't do it" and I'm transgender male to female. Its a huge step from which you can never recover. Lacking a penis, you will never be the consument male, you will never have the confidence you perceive in other males. If you feel tall and awkward now, a sex change won't do anything about that.

You need to reassess yourself. I'm tall, big boned, size 16 dress size,

and I wear 11B shoes. Non of that stops me from attracting men and feeling like a desirable woman. But you need to take some action. You are really flat chested. Consider breast augmentation to maybe a C cup- that will do more than anything to build your confidence- when you see men attracted to your bosom. And God sakes, get a new longer hairsyyle- go through your wardrobe and get rid of anything androgenous. Makeup will be a big help, get professional assistance.
Have a go at it and good luck.

[Rhonda333]

So where's the OP? Some 15 girls and 19 guys have troubled to try and help this guy- but obviously he's either a fake of he's too rude to reply back.

[Anonymous]

There are many submissive men out there who like women like you. Don’t give up hope just yet. In my opinion transsexuals are victims and I don’t mean that to offend them. Transsexuals probably have low self esteem and never had any emotional support prior to their transition to help them embrace the sex they were born as.

Before you decide to go through with your transition, you should know that many people who went through with their transition actually regretted it later on.

You are unique. Be proud of who you are. There aren’t many women who are like you. Many women actually wish they could have the traits you have. You are tall, dominant, you have a deep voice, you are probably naturally strong based on your “big bones” and you probably have higher levels of testosterone based on your body hair. You can be a great athlete.

[qxeenrrose]

You are confused. Just because you LOOK Like a man. Does not mean you should become one. It’s way emotionally deeper on how your brain works. Not how your body looks. Transgender people are transgender for some reasons like being mentally born a male but having the body of a female. You are saying you want to be a male because it would “suit” you better. Please don’t make a dumbass decision you will regret in a few years.

[LordPK20797]

You don’t chose to become trans. Also many men such as myself love dominant women. Not masculine ones but dominant ones. Just don’t get testosterone because honestly, you probably aren’t trans. You obviously don’t seem to have ANY gender dysphoria. It isn’t a choice to be trans.

[sd0919908]

This really needs to be MHO

[kreamykraemez]

I much agree with you sir

[DesertCreature]

Now that Dr. Teenager's cleared this up for all time I guess we can all go home now then?

[AaronKrieger]

So you're becoming a transgender because multiple faggots told you, you would look more attractive as one rather someone who is straight that's not trying to bully you and because you believe men are not attracted to tall women.

[DesertCreature]

Well here's a good argument for not allowing children to use social media.

[LovelyBones13]

I would reconmend you to talk to a therapist. Being transgender is not something to take lightly.

And i am 5'11 and very skinny/delicate build and i have a lot of guys flirting with me and being intrgued by me being a tall skinny elf

[YHL6965]

"3. People would respect me more as a man" Haha, no they won't.
One thing might help you realize something : the suicide rate among post-op transgenders is the same as pre-op transgenders. Changing your body will solve nothing because, whatever you do, you will always be a woman and your treatment will remind you of that everyday.

[chunlilovesvega]

you are tall enough to pull it off at least. you'll never have a penis, you'll just have masculine features getting on the testosterone. it's difficult to keep at it I'd say.. I dont understand if you're a 100% straight female?

[Anonymous]

Don't do it for someone else or because of what society tells you. Only do it because you TRULY want to be a man. There are some men who would like an Amazon woman to dominate them, but not me. If you decide to do it there are more bisexual men who would date a guy like that than you would realize.

[Icebabyivee]

Why did you have to state 'but not me' , literally no one asked?

[Icebabyivee]

And amazons are 6'0 feet + not five ten

[sapphire3506]

I personally dont think that all men would care about your features, but if you wanna be a man, be a man. Be yourself. Be who you wanna be. I hope you're enjoying your new body :)

[InvictusManeo]

Pm me

[bobblehead5503]

@InvictusManeo Don't PM him. He was encouraging young girls to send pictures on another post. Block him instead, please.

[xButterflyKisses87x]

@InvictusManeo you’re disgusting encouraging young girls to send you pics

[xButterflyKisses87x]

@bobblehead5503 report him if you seen it first hand

[bobblehead5503]

@xButterflyKisses87x I don't know if he was asking girls to send him pictures himself. But a young girl asked a question on how to send pictures through PM, and another user advised her not to, then he was really rude to them and saying how the OP should send photos if she wanted to and all that jazz.

I'm not sure what his intentions are here, but the age difference and what he said before had me a bit worried so that's why I commented.

[ATuairiscean]

I would think that you would have to be a 100% sure and 100% sure for a long time before start this journey but whatever you decide, the best of luck

[Киттйлинк]

And how are you gonna get a dick? I don’t get it...

[ChocolateCheesecake]

The suicide rate for people that hack their genitals is Sky High look it up

[WitchsLove]

Point 3: women also get respect. To think men get more respect than women is backwards thinking.

[Salmon4056]

I disagree on #5. Also I think you look like a girl but I guess it's all on what we think.

[HungMoose]

I think you will make your life a living hell. If you have a vagina you ARE and ALWAYS WILL BE, female.

[Pink2000]

Your reasoning isn’t good enough at all. Women come in all shapes and sizes. You were born with a pussy so you’re a WOMAN.

[fay23]

If you have body dismorphia and identify as a man then transition but in my opinion I don't think you are trans.

[DarganKorodanya]

The decision is yours. You are confused, but you can find your way out. I personally wouldn't become a transgender, but that is because I have found peace in the body I have. I have understood this body of mine, and it's capabilities.

[Anonymous]

you are insane lol

Lord Jesus Christ
above the dome help her soul

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IAcp3BFBYw4

[OldSchool_Metalhead]

I think even jesus would be sick of your spamming of your dome videos.