It's not about the clothes you wear, your hair color or style, or your face!

InvisaQueen
It's not about the clothes you wear, your hair color or style, or your face!

Lately I have been seeing questions and polls asking "What hair color do guys prefer?" Or "Are blondes better than brunettes?"

The answer is none of them and no! Yes guys may like a certain hair color but that doesn't matter. Blondes and Brunettes are equal, hair color doesn't determine how smart or good in bed you are.

Don't get me wrong I understand being curious or being insecure and asking these questions. I get insecure about my looks all the time but I'm able to push passed it and I don't let people change me.

If a guy (or girl) wants you to change yourself because they don't like the way you look, then they don't deserve you. If they really lover you they will except you for who you are, no matter what you look like, flaws and all.

But I do get it....STORY TIME! ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

I was talking to my boyfriend, my head was on his lap and he was playing with my hair.

"Your hair is so soft."

I smiled and thanked him and told him about my plan to get it cut. He looked at me a bit surprised and said "Really? Cool. I think you'd look really cute with a pixie cut."

"Really?"

"Yeah. I actually kinda prefer short hair on girls."

You know when you get scared your heart jumps in your throat and your mouth gets all dry? That's what happened when to me when he said this.

"Well why didn't you tell me? I would have gotten it cut sooner."

"You don't have to cut your hair for me. You are beautiful to me and I love you the way you are, I won't break up with you just because you have long hair, that's just stupid."

So yes I do understand the insecurities asociated with the questions. But anyways what do you guys think? I'm not trying to rag on anyone. Just love yourself cause Bitch you beautiful.

It's not about the clothes you wear, your hair color or style, or your face!
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