Dress Like an Elegant Lady

[Beautyforeverybody]

Hey everyone ! It has been a while since I last shared a myTake so enjoy :)

Rule number 1 : Don't show all your assets.

We all know that women who choose to wear the most revealing clothing possible when they go out. Sure she might look hot and sexy but what would others think of her?

Elegant ladies respect themselves and others. They care about how they present themselves when they go out so they will look their absolute best but not by showing it all.

a not so elegant lady going out

a high class lady going out

Some of you may get offended at me for this but how you look , affects what other people think of you. Depending on your goal , if you are single and looking for the best possible mate , if you don't present yourself in a ladylike way you will attract a lot of cheap , low valued men who are just looking to pass time with you.

Rule number 2 : Avoid unnatural colors.

By unnatural colors , I don't mean to say colors like pink or purple. You can wear any color you want as long as it does not disturb one's eyes. Here are some examples of colors which is not good for the eye.

a neon purple dress (big no)

Very sparkly green dress

Instead, try these;

A sequin dress

Emerald green can never go wrong

Go for big floral prints

Rule number 3: Don't go out in active wear.

There is trend now that we see many celebrities do. They go out in active wear and while it may look good and it certainly is comfy. It gives off bad impressions about us. People may think we are lazy and lack self respect. So I am going to show you how to feel comfortable while still looking feminine . First let's look at some models who follow this ''gym clothing'' trend.

Taylor Hill and Romee Strijd walking around in gym outfits

I know that some of you now maybe thinking that the examples I showed looked cool and trendy but our goal here is none of that. We are trying to look feminine, elegant and neat.

Instead, try these;

Shoes are a hugely important part of an outfit. They can make or break your whole look. If you want to appear elegant, say goodbye to your 10 inch heels and break the habit of wearing sneakers everywhere you go.

Shoes for the days you want to walk in comfortably in the summer ;

Kitten heel sandals

Knitted loafers

Pointed toe flats

Shoes to walk in comfortably in winter time;

Wedge heeled knee high boots

Equestrian style leather boots

Leather loafers with a mini heel

Now let's see some examples of the shoes we can wear on a special occasion where we don't have to walk too much ;

Pointy toed, red bottom stilettos

Heeled nude sandal

Thin heeled ankle boots

That is all for now! I hope you enjoyed

[Aassem]

You are right!
When a girl wears tight revealing provocative clothes they tap into the sexual desire of a man so they would mostly be sexualized and when they dress modestly they earn instant respect from men especially if they are naturally beautiful tbh, but that's not the point, with modesty and proper clothes you become mostly admired because that shows security rather than neediness as it means that you know you don't need to show your body to make people like you and it shows you don't want any extra attention as you are secure without it and don't need extra validation which shows that you are of high value, as you know that your natural demeanour is good enough.

[BabyGirlRobin]

Women who wear provocative clothes aren't always slutty or insecure, maybe it's fucking hot outside or they're confident in their bodies. Or maybe it's their style of clothing. You shouldn't make judgements like that and this entire article is a load of bullshit. And I don't dress provocatively either, but I don't shame women into wearing modest clothes because I'm insecure within myself.

[Aassem]

Okay

[TruthBringer]

@BabyGirlRobin Cope harder sweetie. The weather is no excuse to dress like a stripper. Plenty of elegant summer dresses that don't show you off like a pornstar. The most secure women I've met are the ones who don't find the need to show off too much skin. So let's not talk about security and insecurity when it's generally known that those who dress provocatively do so to gain validation. And the need for validation is often a big indicator of poor self-esteem.

[TruthBringer]

@Aassem You hit the nail right with this one, mate. Absolutely well said! Women who respect themselves and are truly confident don't feel the need to advertise themselves in a sexual manner. Because they know that what they project out to the world is how they will be perceived and is also what they will attract

[Coolkat12345]

Well if you think about it, woman who dress elegantly usually end up having good husbands and good and happy relationships. Woman that dress like strippers usually end up in bad relationships.

I mean think of examples you personally know and you will see that what I am saying is true. So woman please dress elegantly if you want a good husband.

[BabyGirlRobin]

Most stupid shit I've ever read. That's called standards, women don't need to dress like nuns because people are insecure and they try to shame them.

[Coolkat12345]

@BabyGirlRobin ya that’s why 1 guy liked this post and 0 disliked it. Hey if you want to dress like that go ahead but guys don’t want that in a wife and look at the like list from men if you don’t believe me.

[BabyGirlRobin]

I don't dress like that but slut-shaming is wrong.

[Coolkat12345]

@BabyGirlRobin I’m not hating on anybody I’m just trying to help woman understand this so they can not be confused and they can be happy and have good relationships.

[Azura_88]

I know my aunt who dressed elegantly and successfully attracted good husband. Now HE REGRETS MARRYING HER because you can wrap a shit with a nice gift cover but it won't change the fact that it's a shit. She turned out to be manipulative, controlling, selfish and sneaky.

[Azura_88]

This mytake only says to DRESS LIKE an elegant lady, not to be an elegant lady. Women who according to men 'dress like sluts' aren't necessarily the sluts.

[Coolkat12345]

@Azura_88 you woman have some bad attitudes that dress like sluts in public. The problem is you don’t understand a guys mind and you end up messing your relationship up because you do this and get all mad when somebody tells you the truth. Just dress like a slut in private with your guy not in public and I guarantee your relationship will get better.

[Azura_88]

I neither dress like a slut, nor like an elegant lady. I just dress casual, comfy or sporty style.

[Coolkat12345]

@Azura_88 that’s cool as well as long as a girl doesn’t dress like a slut I’m public regularly than I can respect her. Of course a girl dressing like a slut for her husband privately is all good tho.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

@BabyGirlRobin Read my mind. :)

[errorgoodnameunfound]

@Azura_88 Yup. Sounds about right. Seen it too many times. :)

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

While I agree with the showing less is more... I disagree with every female has to dress "elegant"... More there's a time and a place for it. People have a right to dress I'm what is comfortable to them. Yes, first impressions can say a lot, but that should be more the way they carry themselves, than just what they wear... Because never judge a book just by the cover...

[BabyGirlRobin]

I 100% agree, this article and some of the people in the comments are just slut-shaming.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

The whole "provocative VS modest" thing seems a lot similar to the "slut VS virgin" thing. Except it's clothes instead of what action a person chooses to take.

[Kas19]

I don't wanna look elegant. Maybe I wanna look feral.

[Kas19]

But the outfits look really cute. Not my style personally.

[TruthBringer]

Very nice take! As you can see, you've triggered a bunch of snowflakes who got their bubble burst because they can't cope with the fact that men will only respect women who dress respectfully/elegantly while seeing those who dress provocatively as nothing but sexual.

Men, especially those of value won't invest in a woman who dresses provocatively. They may only use them for sex, but they will never commit to them. And this is a harsh fact that the women of G@G have to swallow, even though it goes against many years of feminist indoctrination. No wonder why the marriage rates are at an all-time low. These are the same women who complain about being single and get harrassed by unwanted guys while they themselves are walking around like prostitutes. I have no sympathy for them.

Glad my girlfriend loves dressing elegantly aswel. She looks fabulous in them

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Eh, I don't know who exactly the snowflake is dude. You're basically admitting you'll throw a fit about how a girl dresses. I literally can see a woman go naked and be like "eh, whatever." I'm not saying a girl should no matter what dress as slutty as possible, but there's a time and a place. Whatever happened to balance? Ya know, a girl that can dress like a slutty cat for fun, maybe for a Halloween party, but can also dress up when she wants to go to fancy gala? They're sluts because they occasionally dress so for fun? Seriously?

[TruthBringer]

@errorgoodnameunfound Point out where I mentioned that I would "throw a fit" about how my girl dresses? You don't have to throw a fit when you don't tolerate something. If you think girls dress like a slut for fun, then I got news for you. They do it for validation/attention. Where does it say "dress like a slut" for Halloween? Not every event, time or place is an invitation to dress revealing. Like that 22 year old girl who got escorted to get a shirt at Disney World since she wore a too revealing top.

[ShaTTeredMasterpeace]

Ehhh, I think I'll continue to wear what I want. I don't dress for other people so there's that. And I also enjoy being able to switch it up when I want to. I'll never understand the point of people ragging on others because of what they wear or how they look. The art of minding your business is really lost today.

[Overmind]

I always glance over the scantily clad ones. What would draw my attention instantly is a nice dress not too short & a very subtle fragrance, something like lilac. You're right about not showing too much right off; if you want to be on that guys mind you have to leave something to the imagination.

[MysteriousDarkness]

I find it funny that you think kitten heel sandals are good walking shoes. Basically you are saying to have a guy respect you that a wonan should be dressed elegantly. That means no walking shoes, no athletic wear, no form fitting clothes etc. Most women are not going to be dressed as you described going to a doctor appointment, grocery shopping, picking up kids from school, going to a park, going for a walk or bike ride etc. You say to wear a sequined dress and then show one that is probably thousands of dollars if not tens of thousands of dollars. Where do you expect a woman to wear that to? A woman can wear athletic wear and still look feminine. You say guys might think they are lazy so let them think that not that you could stop them.

[Nikola321]

Good job! I think women nowadays don't have enough self-respect and that's why they follow this new fashion.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Saudi Arabia and North Korea LOVE this comment section! Great job! :D

[Xoirwinkan]

Interesting. I would say that wearing dresses and skirts is MUCH more elegant than pants or shorts. Skirts should go to the knees and cleavage showing avoided. Long flowing hair is very elegant. Minimal makeup.

[BabyGirlRobin]

Short hair can be elegant.

[BabyGirlRobin]

I'm still gonna wear my baggy clothes and sweatpants. If people think I'm ugly at my best, they can think I'm fucking ugly at my worst.

[Miristheiss]

Agree.
I would be very nice to see more women dress elegantly.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Elegants lady's dont tear up women who wear wtf they want. If you were modest clothes due to men, then you dont have self respect yourself. Women who wear wtf they are the ones who respect themself. I dress myself modestly but i like women who are not afraid of showing off. Men also show off their secondary sexual traits like beard but nobody slut-shame them. You are kissing men's ass

[Tinaaas]

Amen sis
I don't get women who suck up to men or those who always try to bring other girls down because they're insecure
It's cringe asf 💀

[hi_it_is_me123]

Oh thank you! Sorry for grammar mistakes. I dress very modestly and i have never have a problem with women who dont dress modestly. In my experience they are very nice unlike women who dress modestly probably because of men, culture or whatever. So i have the feeling they are jealous or they just want to suck up men.

[Tinaaas]

Thank you! And frrr I can't with these misogynistic women!
I respect women who would rather dress modestly because they want to and not because they're trying to impress men. it's just not right
We don't live in the stone age anymore 🤦🏽‍♀️ just let women do whatever they want lol whether they wanna wear modest or revealing clothes
Also your English is perfect dw 💞

[Beautyforeverybody]

When did i put them down exactly? Im not putting a gun on your head. Keep on looking unclassy, up to you sis.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Tf. You are just shaming women who ain't ClaSsY. Being classy is not only about clothes. Your gross attitude and behaviour is unclassy. Go kiss man's asses somewherelse.

[hi_it_is_me123]

I am sorry if i sounds rude. It is just annoying to talk down women who dont want to dress modestly. Women should not tear up other women who have different choice in clothes. It is ok if you dont like revealing clothes but you can't just shame on them. Maybe i misunderstand you and you can't express yourself well-i hope so. I dont like femcels

[hi_it_is_me123]

I am going to agree to disagree with you.

[Beautyforeverybody]

Isn’t it ironic? You think you are supporting women by shutting a woman who voices her own opinion up? You aren’t a real feminist let alone a decent respectful human being. I never said a lady should be mistreated because of her clothes, I just said that the way you dress affects people’s opinions of you. deny it as much as you want but it is true.

[Tinaaas]

Lol you're a walking contradiction. You just called women who wear revealing clothes "unclassy"
Keep sucking up to men "sis". Not sure why you're so triggered over seeing women looking all sexy but I assume it's just insecurity and jealousy.
by the way trying to bring women down to impress incels (and failing miserably) is also unclassy
I shouldn't be the one teaching you that 🥺

[Tinaaas]

@Beautyforeverybody

[Tinaaas]

Ignore her lol
She's basically projecting her insecurities on you
@hi_it_is_me123

[BakedBeanieBabie]

I think I'll stick to leggings and loose shirts, thanks.

[BabyGirlRobin]

Me too.

[CuteLingsAppreciator]

If you want to be elegant and modest, good for you. it is my choice too and I like it. but your take is so bad and reaks of internalized misogyny.

[Rok4bakAR]

First of is none of your business how girls dress.
B) Is called a free world and girls can dress whatever they want.
If they bust their asses to look good why not show it off?
C) you sound like a fat feminist cunt. Maybe you better keep your clothes on, and dont show any part of your skin.

[Beautyforeverybody]

So much assumptions coming from an incel. Im not forcing it on anyone , also abour “fat feminist cunt”, you sound like somebody who lacks basic human skills so you are not in my target audience anyways. Now get lost and keep your useless , juevenile opinions to your retarded self.

[Rok4bakAR]

a hot girl won't care how much skins girls show off. IM not a braindead cunt like you. Thats why. you're dumb as hell and assume everything can't see past anything.

[BabyGirlRobin]

Well it could also be hot outside, or it's their style of clothing. I don't like how this article shames women because they're insecure. Just let people wear what they want to wear.

[Rok4bakAR]

Gender doesn’t give you respect! You don’t like it? Go talk to those feminist who been screaming in our ears. I treat the guy the same. This is not 1954 women don’t get respect because of the gender anymore. She’s fat? Or Insecure? Not my problem. Tell her to eat less

[anasarox]

I love this look, when I take my girl out to Denny's everyone turns their heads, she thinks this is because she has a second nose (rare condition) but infact it is because of her snazzy appearance. Even the waiter gets in on complementing he natural sophisticated elegance.

[Anonymous]

Nice take, but I'm curious as to why you don't like that first dress. It provides full coverage, no?

[Beautyforeverybody]

The sides and the tightness

[Opinion Owner]

Too form fitting?

[Minx7282]

It reveals too much skin and doesn't leave much to the imagination. As it exposes a lot of certain parts of skin. It's just not the style

[Azura_88]

Thanks for showing me that unnatural shiny pink and purple dress. It will be added to my collection. :) I really loved it.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

Saudi Arabia called. They want to invite you for a fashion show there. :)

[Ryfyle]

This whole post sounds like some ones Envious of other people forms and dresses extremely frumpy. Like the whole take is to dress to impress other women.

[ilikefrogsalot]

No, doesn't seem like it. Would a dignified, high-value woman dress like a prostitute? Would you rather be around a woman who dresses elegantly or a woman that dresses like she does "favors" for truckers behind a gas station? Anyone who dresses in the first dress out in public (the bedroom is fine for that kind of stuff) should be avoided because they tend to be not-so-good individuals and influences. Not all, of course, but most.

[Ryfyle]

@ilikefrogsalot Neither, but the Truck stop hooker might have a fun story or two.

[Ryfyle]

@ilikefrogsalot Secondly, "interesting" is of a higher value than the perception of "class". Especially in a world where billionaires shit on the rest of society.

[ilikefrogsalot]

I'm not talking specifically about rich women. You can dress/act classy on a budget. "Class" doesn't have to have a price tag. You can also be classy and interesting at the same time. To me, class means having dignity and respect for yourself. I can't respect women who objectify themselves for male attention.

[Ryfyle]

@ilikefrogsalot You can smell cheap sequins, cheap make up, and Target brand "class". Most of your examples of "Classy" look to be either cool Wine Aunts or Distant early thirties moms who expect private schools to raise their kids, both drive Kia entry Crossovers. To be honest, I care not for the Trophy wife/ Prostitute dichotomy and many men see that as well. Like jeans and a shirt is too much to ask for?

[ilikefrogsalot]

Yeah, jeans and shirts are fine. I'm not against dressing casual, I just really don't like women who make the rest of us look bad. The only problem I have with your opinion is that these women are "envious". It's really hard to be envious of someone who's hit rock bottom (in my opinion).

[Ryfyle]

@ilikefrogsalot Well you have looped back to my original point. Men are terribly simple and pragmatic.

[ilikefrogsalot]

I wouldn't consider a man who's attracted to those types of girls high-quality either. Low-quality tends to attract low-quality and high-quality tends to attract high-quality.

[Ryfyle]

@ilikefrogsalot Not a Country Club and golf kind of guy, and I don't plan to be no matter my income.

[ilikefrogsalot]

High-value doesn't necessarily mean high-income. When someone says "high-value" or "low-value" when referring to a person, they're usually talking about their personality and character.

[Tinaaas]

More like dress modestly to impress men.

[errorgoodnameunfound]

lol, that is a DAMN good point bro. :)

[Anonymous]

lack self respect because someone is wearing gym clothes? Who tf are you even
Shut the fuck up you're irrelevant

[Opinion Owner]

Not you acting like a damn fashionista when you barely got 60 followers

[ilikefrogsalot]

Looks like someone is triggered 😂. It's just her opinion, it's not like she's forcing anyone at gunpoint to never wear gym clothes again. Why do you have your panties in a twist over someone's opinion on gym clothes, of all things?

[Opinion Owner]

@ilikefrogsalot stfu you're irrelevant too 😘

[ilikefrogsalot]

Says the coward who's hiding behind an anonymous account. You're too much of a pussy to tell someone "shut the fuck up you're irrelevant" with your real account 😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

@ilikefrogsalot why are you still here, irrelevant bitch 😘

[ilikefrogsalot]

Is the only insult you know "irrelevant bitch"? Get more creative 🙄

[Opinion Owner]

@ilikefrogsalot well that's what you are
An irrelevant bitch 😥
you're either interfering in people's business like a fucking cunt or you're the same person who posted this but from a different account LMAO

[ilikefrogsalot]

How am I interfering in anyone's business? You posted a comment publicly, correct? That means your opinion is open to public criticism. I responded to your opinion with my own criticism, because if you weren't aware, that's what you do on this website. If you didn't want anyone responding to you, why did you post your opinion in the first place? Now that I've explained this to you as I would to a five year old, do you understand now? Or are you going to keep calling me "irrelevant", "bitch", or "cunt" because your peanut-sized brain can't conjure up an intelligent response?

[Opinion Owner]

@ilikefrogsalot bitch I'm not gonna read a whole ass essay
Cry about it

[ilikefrogsalot]

If you think what I wrote was an essay, sorry to break it to you... you didn't pass kindergarten :(

[Opinion Owner]

@ilikefrogsalot cry about it 😘

[ilikefrogsalot]

Your lack of self-awareness and IQ astonishes me. I'm genuinely flabbergasted. So congrats, I guess?

[Laciandmaci]

@ilikefrogsalot started on me numerous times too about the dumbest stuff.

[Opinion Owner]

@ilikefrogsalot again, cry about it 🤣

[Opinion Owner]

@ilikefrogsalot bye now babe that was fun
Go back to dressing up like a grandma and being a submissive bitch

[errorgoodnameunfound]

@ilikefrogsalot Uh, if I can speak as part of the male gender girls so often kill themselves looking elegant for, the blunt truth is we aren't that picky and the pictures shown are beyond hyper sexual for literal traditional gals. One literally showed off curves and most shown skin. I've seen sexy cat outfits that are less revealing. Ofc, I defend the right for free speech, even if I disagree, but then again, the OP seems a bit bossy and it could lead to relationship issues very easily. Guys that like elegant clothes, yes they may often be wealthy, but that can easily come with abuse and such.

All in all, whatever happened to balance, ffs? Dress slutty on occasion, elegant at times, regular at... regular times. Time and place, jeez. Only an idiot would wear an extremely fancy dress at the beach but short shorts and just a bra at a high class gala with a dress code. Hell, if its to impress men and be "traditional," shouldn't men be the ones deciding what is considered elegant with women wanting those types of guys shutting up while in the kitchen and tending to the kids? Cause thats what those men want. They often dont give a shit about what a woman considers elegant, bc its their house, their money, their rules. Js.

[Anonymous]

I feel most of these rules are dated and most of these clothes are also boring and old-fashioned
I'm not a 50 y. old lady but a teenager so I prefer being comfortable and looking cute and trendy rather than looking like an old lady

[Tstrbrainer]

Looks like men even care about what women wear

[Tstrbrainer]

I don't