Would you let your teenage daughter dress like this?

Question

Hypothetically speaking, you have a daughter, she's under 18, would you let her wear this shorts?

 

What about your son, would you let him go out shirtless or with something like this (where his bulge is clearly noticeable)?

dangerDoge · Accepted Answer

Short answer: No.

First, I question "Where did they get those clothes. Did they buy them with my money?" If they did, I wouldn't be happy. That'd be a big no no. They aren't going to buy that stuff on my dime because I frankly don't approve of it.

Second, they are going to get a big talk on sexualization, the world we live in, and that you can still be very attractive to whoever without dressing like that. In fact, many would find them more attractive if they'd dress less sexually.

Third, I'd say to them that while they live in my house and eat my food and whatnot, they aren't going to dress like that. It is the trade off of living here. I don't stay insanely strict, but I have some clear cut lines in the sand so to speak. That'd be crossing them.

However, if they bought those clothes with their own money that they worked for, I would tell them something like, "When you are out of this house and over 18, ask yourself if you really feel the need to wear those. Do you need to flaunt your body like that? Truth be told, I can't stop you once you are out of this house. You will be an adult and you will have the rest of your life to shape primarily by yourself. So, if you feel the need to wear those, save them until that time and then decide. As for right now though, you live with me, and I cannot let this pass. As a parent, it is my job to look out for you and even if you don't like my decision, I have to make it."

hellionthesage · Accepted Answer

To use the colloquial terminology, "Hell fucking no!"
I would not let them reduce themselves down to that. Their is nothing wrong with sex, their is something wrong with trying to get sexual attention when underage, older to to be honest. I would want my children to aspire to something greater then a sexual object. I would want them to be a full person, yes sex will be apart of that but its only one of many parts and I would hope that I would have taught them better then that.

crystalt70 · Accepted Answer

Not "no", but "hell no". Not happening. Thankfully, I have children with good heads on their shoulders. I can guarantee you that both of my teens would look at what these kids are wearing with a "wtf" facial expression, shake their heads and would have some kind of response about how they wouldn't be caught dead wearing something like that. I raise my children to respect themselves and to never be a certain way for the sake of having others like you. You can try to be somebody else, but nobody else can be you.

SirenDep · Accepted Answer

I would explain to them why this isn't a good look. First of all, it is shameful to be displaying your private parts in public, and it leads on other people disrespecting and misjudging you. The girls in the first picture need a bigger size shorts, and shouln't pull them up so much, they also need some opaque tights underneath those shorts. In the second picture, this isn't attire for going out, it's clearly underwear. As for going shirtless, it's weird, unless you're working out and it's too hot outside

WhatTheHellAmy · Accepted Answer

Those girls are so damn fine 😍😍😍

I would be a hypocrite if I wouldn't let them go out like that since I've been in restaurants wearing bikinis, so...

As long as they wear condoms and/or take pills, my kids can do what they please. I'll just let them know I'll spank their asses with the power of thousand suns if they screw up.

Lyndsielee666 · Accepted Answer

the thought of my daughter dressing like that makes me sick honestly. I can't stand even taking her places because hoodrats.

Screenwriter · Answer

This isn't about "LET."
I think if a parent who has teens living at home SEEs these types of outfits about to leave their house or re-enter, they have a perfect right to say, this kind of dress is inappropriate if you're living under my roof.
Of course THIS MEANS WAR!!!
I'm sure the girl or guy will simply take the offending clothing to someplace else and change into it.
BUT YOU HAVE LAID DOWN THE APPROPRIATE CLOTHING LAW.
They're heard it from you. ANd be specific as to why you're saying this. You don't want your son of daughter to be thought of as pieces of meat. If you're dressing like a ho, you'll most often be treated like one.
For young girls it IS more important to dress modestly. If you're advertising, adolescents and men think you're asking for sex.
I believe young women are simply trying to exercise their attractiveness power. They want to be SEEN AS SEXY. They don't necessarily want sex.
Unfortunately, men do not descriminate in this manner. They assume the females want sex because they're dressing like they want sex. This is always a problem between young men and women.
Good luck!

ElissaDido · Answer

That's what they will get I they dress that way The flying slipper.

becca123 · Answer

As a mom, I have my daughter do the bend over test on questionable shorts or skirts. I want her to learn to be dressed in a way that promotes respect for herself and lets people take her seriously.

When she gets old enough, we can discuss dressing "sexy respectable..." which still wouldn't include those shorts :P!

snowangle · Answer

Absolutely not, either of them. My kids will present themselves with modesty and class.

As someone who saw, first-hand, her brother receive more leniency when it came to the opposite sex.. I would never impose those double standards on my children.

BellePepper · Answer

We would have to have some serious talks about objectification and sexualization. Neither child would be allowed to go out like that or take pictures like that.

matheus_mb · Answer

I wouldn't because as a man I know what kind of guys this could attract, it wouldn't be good for my daughter to have teenage guys eager only for sex looking at her ass... That's why I should tell her exactly what they will think, maybe it would change her mind.

throwit · Answer

id only let them wear stuff like that to the beach
If here confident enough to wear it then whatever. But that wouldn't be allowed in any school, and for good reason. And if I see people dressed in that it's something to make fun of lol

I would let the girls know that creepy old men will be all over them and strangers will try to feel you up and kidnap you, and I'd tell the boys... Basically the same thing lol that perverts will try and kidnap you

aoifeislovable · Answer

What kind of guy goes out wearing something like that?😂😂 but no, called me old fashioned but I wouldn't

Shawna53 · Answer

Parents need to understand that your children can't always get their way when it comes to clothing. I have seen girls younger than me wearing these and I'm just shocked that their parents would let them out of the house like that. Girls and guys under the age of 18 will just need to realize that showing off everything isn't the best thing. Some parents need to teach their children how to dress appropriately for the age without showing too much skin.

EmpatheticLady · Answer

That's a big "no" to both for me. If they want to wear those things after they leave my house, then it's their choice. While they're living under my roof, though, there would be no way that would happen.

puertoriguesa · Answer

HECK TO THE EFFING NO... id get rid of all those shorts or any skirt/ dress that short and possibly burn them since they're not even wearable and i'll ground them or have them supervised at school or anywere they go to make sure they don't change their clothes

Kris85 · Answer

I have two daughters and if they dressed like that I would think I failed as a mother. No self respect on these women whatsoever when they dress like that. It makes me sick.

cece97 · Answer

Hell no, just... NO smh especially not under 18. wearing regular shorts are fine, those in the picture are too short; for the son, he better put pants on before leaving the house in that lol

igfunnyboi · Answer

I have no idea what kind of clothes people will be wearing by the time I have teenage kids. Long time to go.

johnmsk · Answer

It's their body. Their freedom. Let them enjoy showing more skin if they want

KDA20 · Answer

I wouldn't be happy to let my teen son/daughter wear them as everyday clothes but on the beach (okay).

apple24 · Answer

I would let both go out like that! Short short yes but the ones that show your check! Thats a no go! I don't need SEE your private! Ale where do u come up with these question!

Metlahaed · Answer

Those are nice buns...

Yeah I would let both my son and daughter dress like that, though I wouldn't like it and it would make me uncomfortable... I wouldn't stop them from wearing the clothes they like.

AustinMan · Answer

If she's still living at home, no. Once she moves out, it's out of my control. It's hard to blame a young girl, even my precious daughter, for flaunting it. Those girls' shorts are amazing.

Mesonfielde · Answer

I don't think I'd have to tell them that these "clothings" are unreasonable. The decisions people make are the result of the integral of their past experiences. You'd think they'd have learned something about this stuff by now.

Maryy94 · Answer

if I'm the mother.. my children would know what to wear and not to wear.. and that's totally a not to wear

Sammyrowrow · Answer

I mean, if the tank tops were thicker then yeah probably

Girly1710 · Answer

No, I would not let them. AND I'd wonder what I did wrong as a parent that resulted in them wanting to go out like that in the first place.

sweettayla · Answer

Guys can get away with having a lot more on ''display'' than girls. There's no way l'b be allowed out in shorts like that.

dudeman · Answer

is that remy lacrouix? i went to university with her. she wanted to be a doctor lol. that didn't happen

BuchitaBuchys · Answer

This is why I pray I never have kids, especially daughters. Hell no. Over my dead body would I let a child of mine wear denim panties or sag their pants.

ConsultantIsBack · Answer

That's not much of a bulge if we have to zoom in the pic that much to see anything lmao 😂

Natattack21 · Answer

If my daugther even thought she could get past the door like that... she'd be locked in a closet for 5 years... or until she learns to respect herself.  and my son? Nah. Shorts, but no speedos.

RJGraveyTrain · Answer

Fuck no. Shorts, fine. But denim panties? Because that's basically what those are. Hell no.

Marshmellowking · Answer

Well fucking no that shit isn't even sexy they would just get laughed at and bullied for being a tryhard skank

JohnnyBananas · Answer

Hell no! To both! I would raise my kids better than that and felt like I failed as a parent if they started dressing like that.

Explore2016 · Answer

The hot pants are slutty and I wouldn't let my son wear them either. The shorts/swimming trunks are acceptable for boy or girl.

Ashely_Princess · Answer

If I have a daughter and a son when I get older I'm not going to let them go out like that, that's too inappropriate

BumbleSuperBee · Answer

I would never let my future children go out looking like sluts/man whores. So no. Id be embarrassed to have kids who dress like that.

clampfan101 · Answer

The girl's pic: Yikes! I'd have second thoughts about allowing those for my girl until her mid 20s! 😳
The guy's pic: I thought he was wearing some kind of weird and uncomfortable looking underwear or something at first. haha

AmandaLynn1930 · Answer

No way no way no way!!! My goodness!!! That's just asking for problems...

CHARismatic110 · Answer

No. They're not leaving the house looking inappropriate.

RedRobin · Answer

Hell no! Those clothes are waaaaayyyy too revealing!

madhatters4 · Answer

nope... and even if she was over 18 she better not let me see her in those shorts

archiz · Answer

Damnnn man what a view👀👀 Only at the beach😅 I don t want anyone of them to get sexually assaulted.

tantanyasf · Answer

Daaaam! Look at the ass look at that dick print 😜 Back to your question no i wouldn't let my future daugther to dress like that but maybe let my son g

ChocoLada · Answer

I would let them wear shorts, but not that kind of shorts...

BreatheMe19 · Answer

Fuck no. She's not walking out of the house like that. Wtf

Maxemeister · Answer

Jesus Christ! No way! Even tho those outfits r sexy, I would not let my son/daughter go out into the world wearing THAT

RicanEyes · Answer

I have 2 daughters and that is a BIG NO NO in my house!

DivaMonae · Answer

He'll no! What parent actually would?

JCT666 · Answer

If they're not in the right environment or occasion for it then I would find it very inappropriate.

HaveNoName · Answer

If 100% of the women are saying "Hell no", I wonder who the mothers of these girls are.

Tomsta · Answer

I will teach my daughter to not dress so sleezy, certainly while under 18

zombiebabe · Answer

i voted C! no i won't let them

COCOCHANEL · Answer

i think i might let them

thisdudejimmy · Answer

Bathing suits are worse if you think about it. So this isn't really that bad lol

jakeofalltrades · Answer

Hell no, I would send them both back inside to put some cloths on

cinderelli · Answer

over my dead body! 😂

jessicorn · Answer

i'll let them once they reach the age of 18 lol

DodgersGM · Answer

No and no. Not a snowball's chance in hell.

Nik1hil · Answer

Not if they are below 18

SlightlyCrazy · Answer

No have some self respect

VampireEmpress · Answer

I think the answers are pretty obvious.

Xelebrum · Answer

HELL. FUCKING. NO.

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