Really? They seem to move and jiggle with every step of the gals. What's comfortable about this style? Is it like sweat pants but it hugs your body slightly more?
Do you like the attention they attract? Do you like knowing you're attractive to men, that you've made them look at you in this or any other outfit you choose that day?
Do you have a man at this time? Do you prefer women? I have hard time believing a straight woman completely disregards the views of straight men. It'd be hard to attract a mate, if so...
But that's how your boyfriend, and other men, become boyfriends! They look, like/dislike, and take it from there. You don't look at men? You'd never seen your boyfriend till you guys kissed and decided you were an item? :)
I appreciate your point (I hear you, anyway, because I'm not a woman so I can't claim to know your experience). But when a men checks you out, or anything other than your smile for example, it's not meant to creep you out. It's natural. That's how we are built. We could hide it (or not be too obvious about it at the very least), but it wouldn't mean that this side of us doesn't exist. It's tiring to be rejected when you approach a woman respectfully, because you'd like to know her, or be regarded as creeps for reacting in a way we were wired to be even before we were born. So the suckiness isn't just on your end.
I think you're missing the point here, probably because you're in your own experiences of guys who insisted. lol You're not teaching me anything new. I already know what you're saying. :) I'm just saying being constantly rejected for who they are is what guys go through on a regular basis. Your "problem" is being foujd attractive. So we all have our problems and I could really turn around and say, well, since all men are this way, just get used to it and move on... Empathy for your fellow (hu) man is a two way street. ;)
Do you know women who do? Is it just for the attention or do they say they like the comfort of it? I see a lot of women and new mothers--women with a lot of girth to 'em, though not exclusively--wearing them. I'm assuming a lot of women like the attention, but I know some say it's comfortable but I can't see it.
Exactly it goes deep in there. Guys do like to see the jiggling so I guess that's the point when they show themselves off. Do you ever dress nice to get men's attention when you're single? If so, what do you wear? I'm always curious about this because as you mentioned indirectly women feel differently about attracting attention towards their body.
I don't dress to attract men... but do dress to feel gud about myself... I like when girls stare n me n give the hate look.. I wear leggings if I haven't shaved... or else quarter pants... skirts too... sometimes Indian ethnic too..
So you don't think you have any sexual power in comparison to men? For the most part, I have to go up to you to initiate something. Women can make moves but they don't have to to meet someone. I and other men subject myself to rejection constantly. It's not true that you're the only one who's difficult and all other women are easy, as I've heard implied by other women. :) You on the other hand get to turn down men or look for one or get one easily if all you feel like is sex. I'm not saying women have it easy at 100% but you do have some power over the average guy, you do know that, though, right? It's not 50/50.
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