This question isn't to "slut-shame" anyone. I'm merely curious as to why a lot of women like to dress up in very proactive costumes. Surely they know that this will turn a lot of guys on.
"Surely they know that this will turn a lot of guys on."
And that right there is the deeper goal honey. I don't care what females say today, they can say I just want to look cute or because I can wear whatever I what, they can wear whatever they they want however they can still look cute without they're ass hanging out. The truth is they chose the sexy somewhat revealing costume cause they want to attract and look sexy and of course appeal to the male gaze or just grab attention.
But it's mostly done to look good for men. Don't let these women lie to you, most the crazy crap we do is to look good for the opposite sex or get some type of compliments from somebody. Like if I chose to my hair and make up right now and nobody said a word, I would be slightly disappointed cause I actually put work, time and effort into my appearance and feel like it was all for nothing.
When I was in high school I went all out and dressed as the joker, face paint, green hair chalk and everything. My two friends dressed up as two cute slutty animals. Us three went downtown together and these two really cute college guys came up and started flirting with them. For the next two hours I was 5th wheeling in my dumbass joker costume while my two friends were hanging with college guys (in High school that was a big deal) and I was walking behind them on the sidewalk all alone. While I like the idea of actually dressing up in a cool not slutty costume, i wouldn’t willingly repeat that experience. Girls dress slutty because guys give them attention.
Because they know they'll get a lot of attention for it. Honestly it's stuoid. It's stupid that the girls objectify themselves, it's stupid that people overdose on alcohol and drugs, it's stupid that men rape. Halloween has become a stupid recipe for disaster among college students and young people who don't know what they're doing. I wish women would wake up and accept that self objectification is NOT empowerment and although rape and sexual abuse is ALWAYS 100% the fault of the abuser and nobody else, they're putting them self in a dangerous situation.
Also to add why do women wear sexy Halloween customes? They have little choice The American culture and industry makes money off objectifying women These are the only costumes they can buy Poor girls grow up learning that they need to sexualize themselves So we can't blame the women. In many ways we're victims of a horrible culture
@Juxtapose wearing barely anything objectified yourself. They did research and when men viewed women in barely any clothes the same part of their brain that lights up with tools lit up.
This is obvious. Wearing hardly anything takes away self respect.
A woman can look sexy even when she doesn't show off all that skin. Yes, that woman (dat ass!) in the photo is very arousing, but it is also a huge tease. Women know what they are doing when they dress this way. haha! I think from a very early age, women learn the power they have over most men.
Speaking intelligently, it's really all just in your head sweetie. A little change of clothing doesn't change how you look, it changes how you feel about yourself. If you feel sexy on Halloween wearing a skimpy little maids outfit (Or whatever you find sexy, I just other comments and found maids apparently are a huge fetish amongst some) why can't you feel sexy wearing blue jeans and a T-shirt? It's not you yourself who's changed, it's how the clothing made you feel that changed. Just take that sexy, arousing feeling you get from that naughty (Or not so naughty, idk) costume and remember how you felt wearing it and apply that to your everyday life. You're not switching bodies with a hottie sweetie, you are that hottie and always will be, costume or no, clothes or no, the only thing different is your way of thinking. If you can change that, you can change your life.
@DinaM it is literally, no lie, all in your head. If you need a piece of skimpy clothing to make you feel sexy that's called insecurity. And why are you insecure? Because of the thoughts you have because, again, it's all in your head. Ok imagine men were the same way, if they only thought you were sexy because of your clothes, you'd never get laid. Seriously, get over it, if you feel sexy in one outfit you can feel the same in every outfit if you didn't let it get in your head, clothing has no power, that too is in your head.
@DinaM sure I can as long as you don't mind the stupid "Oh if I don't wear this outfit I'm going to look so ugly" analysis. I can't help it I'm intelligent enough to see clothes don't make a difference and you're not. But het, if you need clothes to feel beautiful I'd just go live by a fucking mall. That way every little insecure feeling you get, instead of dealing with it in a mature manner, you can just walk to the mall and buy a new outfit every 30 fucking seconds you don't feel sexy. Hell, fuck jesus, clothes are our savior, clothes are the one true power. Get over youreslf
@DinaM well if you hadn't mentioned that my previous comment was stupid, I wouldn't have mentioned how stupid it is for you to worship clothing some holy deity.
Well, if you hadn't gone for the patronising tone and talked to me like a little child who didn't understand anything, I wouldn't have called the comment stupid.
To all the women saying, "because we can" as an actual reason, fuck off. You "can" also dress up as a stick of butter. But I don't see many women doing that. The man asked why you dress the way you want to. He's not asking why you should, he isn't trying to get your panties in a twist. He's a curious guy with a valid question.
Let's provide an example for you. If someone asked me why I dressed up as James Bond this year, I'd say, "because I think a suit makes me look good and in trying to get laid." or if I was dressed up as the clown from It, I would say, "because in trying to win the scary costume contest and this scares people shirtless."
Notice how I provided a explanation. "because I can" is a useless explanation.
I personally feel that that’s the best explanation. It’s the one night a year that women CAN dress as slutty as possible without being judged for it. We can’t just wear lingerie any day of the year without people judging us.
@exotictype1 I always thought that younger people nowadays were more flexible and accepting of other people in the world. By your attitude, clearly not. Time travel is clearly possible because I didn't realise that a 20 yr old, if thats your real age has been transported from 18th Century Victorian England to the 21st Century.
Lol the asker is genuinely curious as to what started the slutty costume tradition. I don't think he's hating on it all. I'm sort of curious as to how it started as well.
Stop justafing ur real intentions to feel like a hoe that whant to get fucked respect ur self. And be a good example id rather see kids learning the right thing then seeing used assholes
Dam!!! I know but still id rather people have the respect for all those out there do dress like that in a adult party. Not just anywhere like 12-20yr olds in walmart and shit with ther underwear short so please grown ups lear to keep that shit around ADULTS ONLY! Repect ppl!
Its just true i know were allthe same and it is nature but r u not understanding to respect oh yea u dont understand that part cuz ur feeling like a fuckin perv u probnly a ready to go out ther like a dog with u toung out like if it was so beutiful to c that shit.
@finisher21 I agree completely. It's ok to dress really nice for Halloween, but leave things to the imagination. Don't let everything hangout. It's disrespectful and highly inappropriate. Save outfits like that for the bedroom and LEAVE them in the bedroom. Period. End of story. Have a safe Halloween everyone.
Thats the thing y'all dont think about the people and kids around u just or horny perverted minds and that should be keeped private i see a lot of grown ups that act like that in front of kids like if its good should be normal society makes it normal for kids keep it private thats all. Lol thats funny tho but in reality it should not be
Hay cat woman super woman all thos r sexy and they have full costumes but that "kitten suit" is more than necacerry to look sexy ,,, in my opinion full suit might be sexyier almost nude that just reflects how dirty u r. I don't know but its not neccicary to dress an a hore ,,
U talk like a kid. And m8 my training includes free running. U can run in a straight like I can run over pretty much anything. U ain't getting away from me and I would knock u clean out
Maybe you SHOULD dress as old maids... The point is to dress as something you AREN'T for Halloween.. not to further display or amp up your everyday sluttiness.
You're a pig!! Women were NOT put on this earth to please men! You are sexist and if you honestly think that then I feel sorry for any woman who crosses your path!
... rereading it... you might be right... I'm not having a good day, and I took it out on someone else. I apologize for what I said and for any offense @exotictype1. You posted your opinion and everyone deserves to be heard, no matter how much people may disagree. That's why I love this app. I'm not really myself at the moment. I apologize.
Ravage your a bigger idiot than the two guys arguing you disgust as guy who treat woman right and gladly do anything for the one I love I try and be a gentleman maybe you should try it considering your 3 years older!
You're being very rash. Every man is a man in their own way. You don't know what my standards are nor you can't pick up my standards through my comments my question nor replies. I find it strange you would just say that to someone you don't even know online... Even though most people on the internet don't act entirely themselves as they do in real life.
Well maybe you are ending the conversation but I have something left to add I can judge you by your comment enough to know how you treat women and that goes a long way for me no I don't know you as a person but if you give a shitty opinion expect someone to respond badly
Like I said, sarcasm is bliss. If nobody knew I was a sarcastic person, then of course they would think I treat women poorly like you do. Not really my job to make everyone know the real me, only my loving highschool sweetheart, family and friends. 😏 (Yeah, yeah! I know I didn't take my word and end it, but I always like addressing my points)
That being said, I can treat a women like shit and they'll still love me like a dog would.
That's alright, my apologies. I love getting reactions, even if it means to intentionally contradicting myself... Like saying something so outlandish to someone you know or especially you love to see how they react.
Gentleman. There is a point in time where things need to have an end. Could we all please move on to something else outside of this thread? It would be greatly appreciated. ☺
If females are seen that way... They grow up thinking its normal and ok, not just on special occasions, but it seems to be everyday life as well, I see girls younger than 16 wearing reavealing clothes which shouldn't be allowed, and parents shouldn't buy it for their daughters. Guys need think and use their heads (brain) more than their dicks... And also young girls are more sexually assulted/ raped because of wearing clothes that are revealing that inticie sexual predators attention... Like pedo's and rapest. They make me angry I could k*ll them to be honest and not think twice or feel bad about doing it... the same way they don't think twice before raping young girls...
Your above picture is a "COSTUME" (supposed to be something DIFFERENT than what you wear on a regular basis)... but I see no difference.
Women are out of control these days and that is why we need White Sharia. It's time for THOT patrol on a global scale. Reel these fish back into reality and slut shame them until they get it.
There's a difference between dressing sexy and dressing slutty. That's about personal image and how much each girl cares to be looked at... On the other hand, anyone should dress however they want without any fear of being attacked (with criticism). It's that stupid phrase some idiots use when a woman is sexually abused/harrassed: "Look at how she dresses... She was asking for it." NO! You fucking numbnuts... She was not asking to be attacked because of wearing something that makes her feel confident and helps express her sexuality. Women shouldn't be looking out for every pervert feeling grabby — we as a society should be looking for perverts, because they're the ones in the wrong.
I think because it's the perfect excuse to show off some of the goods. Lol. Women do it to feel sexy and beautiful. I think girls are allowed to do whatever the fuck they want. Wear whatever they want. I don't think that just because a girl wears a sexy costume it makes her a slut or whatever. Sometimes it's fun to get out of your comfort zone and dress up as someone totally different than you. I think I ranted but yeah. Just enjoy it boys don't question the sexy. Jk. Plus it's fun to dress up as a character or whatever 😉
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The reasons are simple. They feed of attention, and want you to feed them yours. You will not receive any attention in return, you may not even receive a smile, but they would have fed, and they would have used your masculine energy to feel better about themselves. This is the mistake many guys make, and their life force is being stolen without them even realizing...
The solution to this is also as simple as the answer to your question, learn self control, and stop giving them attention so freely.
As a man, you should decide through careful and deliberate consideration who you will give your attention to (if any at all), rather than doing so as a knee jerk reaction through desperation or lust.
Learn the art of control, and such Halloween costumes do not mean jack... unless you want them to. When you have learned this skill, you will be able to protect and guard your masculine energy once again.
How can anyone give this a thumbs down? Obviously, this man has brains!!! That's so appreciated in a society of sheep these days. Best opinion that I have read!
They do it partially because they're too lazy to make a cool costume. (The coolest costumes I've seen are totally un-sexy). also, why not slut shame? If a fit girl goes strutting out in her birthday suit and you criticize it, you're "slut shaming." If she's fat, you're "fat shaming". People need to actually care about how they present themselves in public, and part of that involves feeling shame when you screw up. I think costumes should be classy. A girl in a fancy dress or a business look is one of the best costumes in my opinion. A girl being hot in a costume has more to do with how she presents herself than her clothes.
For many of us it’s because it’s the one day of the year we can get away with it without being overwhelmingly judged. Not to mention the medically researched fact of feeling more free with a mask on... we do things we normally wouldn’t do because our identities are hidden. Not to mention society, do you see many Halloween costumes for women for sale that aren’t so revealing?
We want other guys attention. We want to feel sexy and powerful. Just like the rest of 364 days throughout the year Whether it be boobs hanging out our shirts, crop tops, short shorts, tight pants, yoga pants, leggings, dresses, skirts, and swim suits we want you to look at us and say omg look at her 😍 taken or single
i guess i am a big dork as I always dress something stupid like a big pumpkin etc. Well one year, i went as Black Widow, still not that sexy clothing thou.
Those girls just want to be slutty get wasted and get laid. And everybody likes attention. So why not?
@Westy616 it’s not about being at a high or low level, neither it’s abou being easy slut or lacking self respect or whatever. People are different. I already attract enough attention even if i wear modestly like everyday. O dont really need to wear revealing clothing to feel free and stuff.
So you don't have self discipline? I think it plays a little into it. I think more modest clothing is more attractive, but I think it has to do more with the character aspect.
This is the harsh truth so here we go.. because all girls have a big inner slut inside of them one way or another.. by wearing slutty costumes for Halloween they maintain their status of plausible deniability since girls never ever take responsibility for their own actions so instead of saying "because am a slut who enjoys attention and trying to get laid or whatever" she will say "because I can OR because its fun OR because its socially accepted for that specific day" basically any excuse that don't give a true personal answer.. like I said they never own up to their actions and those same girls in other situations will be talking about equality and no slut-shamming but deep down they know its BS. Same thing goes for girls who criticize society for slut-shamming girls who sleep around but when you ask them how many sexual partners they have had they lie or tell you that's personal cause deep own they know its wrong and that they are sluts.
Riiight I'm a girl who's neve r had sex before I a very this friend who is convincing me to have sex but when a guy asks if she's a Virgin she says yes even though she has says being a Virgin isn't good in 2017
Well I have little sisters and brothers I don't want my younger sister to copy me I tend to be influencial especially to my siblings I teach my sister to be more confident in herself and not by men
Also I teach her how to love her self I don't want to walk around in super slutty clothes or she'll copy me and as for my younger brothers it's just no respect to dress that way infront them
Women like to dress in sexy costumes because they want to, some want attention from men mostly. They know that the men are going to look at them and think about having sex with them. The woman might not want to have sex with that man, but it sure feels good to tease him. She might just want to dress up sexy to feel better about herself. But, most women like the attention from men.
More than likely for attention. Plain and simple. Not sure what it is about girls that exposing their bodies=confidence to them, as if this is the only way to gain confidence in life. But my money is still on they enjoy attention rather than it brings"confidence"
I'm reading some comments and I can't totally agree with the fact that we dress up sexy to attract the opposite sex. We feel confident with our body you like it or not. For example if a girl dresses up as a sexy nurse that doesn't necessarily means sh wants to be "humped" or she wants attention, she just feels comfy with herself and she wouldn't mind show a bit of leg or chest. Today I dressed up as a anime student and my friend was a sexy maid, she isn't as slim as I am but she was confident and that made her even more sexy, in the other hand me... I just wanted to look like a weeboo for once in my life XD
So in lamans, some dress to be sexy and attract attention to their body thus making them feel as though they are of some value to others in society while others just do it cause they like the way they look in the mirror while wearing it.
Because it's the one night of the year they can get away with dressing like sluts and hookers. Could be chalked up to thrillseeking or maybe just attention seeking, but no matter what excuse they give it's still pretty disgusting lol.
Tbh, the reason there is only slutty stuff in store is because women were made to display themselves to men. That’s what they were put on the earth for. To look good for men.
Bcz it's the one day u can dress up in the most random attire and nobody will care.
But girls always wana look good in what they are wearing... and by good most women first think if looking sexy. Obviously, it attracts attention... but that's what Halloween costumes are about now! In short.. women just wana look sexy all the time!
"In Girl World, Halloween is the one night a year when a girl can dress like a total slut and no other girls can say anything" - mean girls
To me, whether a girl dresses like a slut on Oct 31 or Apr 11, makes no difference. She's still dressing like a slut. Not that I'm complaining because I'll still look but my opinion doesn't change just because its Halloween. You chose to dress a certain way.
Because we can. This Halloween was the first Halloween that I wore revealing clothing and it made me feel good, especially since I was always ashamed of my body. What people wear shouldn't identify them as a slut. And if "sexy" costumes turn on guys, then they need to learn to keep it in their pants.
Listen, as a guy, just remember you don't need to reveal yourself to the public to feel sexy. I don't know how you look like but i'm sure you're a pretty girl regardless. Yeah, guy's should "keep it in their pants", but let tell you something, I have a massive sneaker collection of shoes that are worth $1,000+. If I wore shoes like in public, in a bad area or a bad situation came forward what do you think is going to happen? Someone is going to be like give me your shoes (God forbid).
How do you think a horny guy who doesn't know what is right and wrong going to think or do? It's not just Halloween it's dressing like that during summer or things. I feel that women should be empowered by fighting for equality and not that. Now granted, I am a political science and law student about to wrap up my studies and I know you are 11 years younger than me but I hope in a decade from now you don't have to feel the need to do that in public and don't take this as an insult, i'm just being real.
I understand what your saying, and that's another reason why I never really wore revealing clothes and tried not to draw attention to myself because I get sexually harassed just like every beautiful female out there. It's absolutely annoying, but I don't feel the need to hide every inch of skin on me anymore as I learned how to deal with it. And just like how you wouldn't wear your expensive shoes in a bad area, I wouldn't wear revealing clothing in certain places I go
I dont really dress slutty for Halloween im more on the wholesome bunch. Anyhow, its probably to flaunt and get attention. Its one day you wouldn't get apprehended for dressing slutty anyway.
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