Honestly I hate it when my mom says I am good looking. I know I am not. She tells me all this BS about that not all girls want good looking guys and all this bs and I hate it. I understand she fell for my dad who looked a lot like me, but my mom was 38 and my dad was 45 when they got married. I'm worried the same will happen to me. Anyways I know it's because my mom want's to build my self esteem, but no offense, it's just sugar feeding and babying me. I was born ugly and I'll just end up marrying an ugly girl sometime between 35 and 45 because most women don't like guys like me. I know I sound negative and whiny, but it's because I'm realistic. I know cute girls don't like short fat guys most of the time, and I don't believe in stupid miracle fairytale bs. So why does my mom say this? It doesn't work.
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In your mom's eyes, you are beautiful and you will never be anything but beautiful. She loves you, plain and simple. She says it because she truly believes it. And as for whether women like you, they may be initially attracted to handsome men, but they fall in love with the man's personality. I consider myself cute, and I've had good looking boyfriends as well as average ones. In high school I had a crush on someone I thought was quite ugly (seriously! he had a mullet!) because he was so cool and confident and he made me laugh a lot. Looks just isn't as important to women as it is to men. Make a woman feel special, and she could very well fall for you.0