To me appearance is important for attraction and if I was together with a person who suddenly stopped taking care of the appearance or try to look good to me, I would be less attracted and even tell them so. If I really liked that person, I wouldn't break up with them. But I would have much less sex and the relationship would be mostly based on romance. Relationships are more than only sex. I would be disappointed though, but it's up to them which hair they wants. If they really loved me, they would respect me not wanting to have sex with them like how I respected their decision to neglect their appearance.
Looks also fades with time as we ages and so do our libidos, so most elderly people I knows stays in a sexless relationship and are content with it.
I only freak out over a bad haircut on myself. Once I develop an attraction to someone else, chances are it stays there until someone else steps in (so a bad haircut won’t matter if she already started with a good haircut)
No, that stuff grows back, hurting the person you care for over it, is ridiculous. Its not permanent and next time they go to get it cut, just say something like "I really like when your hair is cut "this way" its sexy". Chances are they will want to make you happy. Even if they don't though, it grows back.
Lmao Brad Pitt really did have a few mental breakdowns with his grooming decisions, love that you used him as an example!
My friends with benefits who I feel like I crush on every time I see him cut his hair too short before and I really wasn’t a fan of that but he still looked good, because he just has a good face & body, so no I think it would lower my attraction a little temporarily but if I crush on someone they usually goodlooking enough to never really fuck up their looks 😂
Well... I mean... If she shaved all her hair off to a buzz cut I wouldn't be physically attracted anymore... I'd think she now looks ugly and too much like a boy, but I'd still fancy her... I'd jus tell her to grow her hair back... If she was mine that is..
Nah, my crush has changed his hair many times (past the shoulders, short, smooth, spiky, he basically changes it every year from what it seems), and I’ve liked him all the same. I began liking him due to his personality and creative nature, not really his looks, so his hair won’t mean much to me. As long as he’s happy//
No, but I'd tell him. Actually this happened recently to me. He got a hair cut and it was really short and I said "You got a haircut?" He said "yeah, was about time" and I said in a playful manner "looks good, but I kinda preferred you with a bit longer". He bursted out laughing, said not to worry since it'll grow back and winked.
Nah. I feel like I’d see their beauty from the inside which would make the outside beautiful regardless of how he looks with his haircut. If it’s a bad ugly haircut I might advise him to maybe try a new hairstyle that better suits him though.
It depends how close our relationship is and if I’m already in love with a guy or not, but if I just see him as eye candy, a bad haircut or one that’s too short can and will crush all or most of the attraction I have to him.
When I'm infatuated, in love or have a crush, it's pretty much unconditional <3 I love deeply... even if they lost their left arm. The different hairstyle wouldn't matter to me
mm not necessarily but usually when you have a crush and they change something about their appearance you immediately think: "Why! You were perfect already!" lol
It depends on how much I like them. If I like them a lot, I probably wouldn’t mind. But if I like them mainly for looks then yeah I will stop liking them.
I have good hair when it’s longer (according to most female friends/acquaintances) and I noticed that every time, I have it trimmed, the attention I get declined a little (from strangers not those who already like me).
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no way. it's all about the eyes. eyes are the windows to the boobies. or the soul. One or the other. I forget which. But hair isn't really important to me
Yeah probably, but not always the case. My current crush grew out a very long beard for some reason but it’s not straggly like a lot of men’s long beards are so I actually don’t mind it but I would prefer him not to have it that long.
No! He is the one I want! I'll tell him I love him and tell him frankly, Please don't get hurt! I think bald hair is not the one for you! I want him to feel good about himself and his looks just as my feelings for him! :) <3 :)
No... but i really not attracted to bald and especially half bald guys. its kinda my turn iff... Really short hair on guys also not very attractive, i love short but very short
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Good looking person who has ugly style appearance would not be ugly at all. So I would say I won't stop attracting to my crush.
Yeah, my crushes are mostly based on looks and the imaginary persona I have assigned to that person. However if it were a partner then no, of course not but I would tease the hell out of them.
No wonder I couldnt get a text back lol! seriously though, yeah, its especially true for girls, when they think shaving the side of their head or getting a pixie cut is sexy... it isn't
Not really a big deal to me. That being said, ex did get a new hairstyle then turn on me for not gushing about it, even though i had told her i wasn't a big fan of the style.
I don't get attracted to only looks! And I love adorable people. Tho if she is looking like a man or the one in the profile pic then yeah I would be weirded out by it.
at a situation like that her looks is the least important thing and i would be focused more on her health than her appearance now if she just shaved it by choice and she will decide to keep it as her style its a deal breaker for me, if she has cancer it can grow back but at that point what i would wanna know first is if she would be ok
No dude, I just wanted to know what you would do in that situation!😂 why would I throw you under the bus after you gave me some weight advice yesterday 🤭😂
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