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It depends on the Tattoo and the girl. It's really different for every person I guess.
I don't mind the tattoos you showed in those photos, those are pretty. I think the woman should get tattoos that compliment her natural beauty, not just get some tattoo for the sake of getting it.
Example of a bad Tattoo is Alizee getting a full length Sailor Moon tattoo on her arm. I think that was a mistake. Gorgeous woman, but a bad tattoo.
Tattoos on women is very sexy
Only incels hate on Tattoos, piercings and such because they feel women should be traditional and cook them food
@Flower7 definitely lol
I find all tattoos whether on males or females are attractive and beautiful 😍
Thank you for MHO 😊🙏🏼
Guys who don’t like women with tattoos have very few brain cells.
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This is an interesting discussion. Personally, it's up to the person why they want to seriously cover up their skin with colored ink PERMANENTLY. I think it's as drastic as multiple and sundry piercings and ear plugs. Your choice to paint yourself with certain tats at 20 will likely be wrong for you at 40. Just as all those piercings might be unless you're an independent artist. Clean unblemished human skin is beautiful. Impermanent tattoos with henna or pull on sleeves, collars, seem a playful choice. But being STUCK with a lot of one thing rubs me the wrong way. I have one small tattoo on my lower back that no one can see unless I show them or they shower with me or I'm naked. It has a short motto and symbol that mean something to me. I'm not interested in showing it off as decoration. For others, this is the point. A skin painting declaration of something. I'm not sure why people who don't know you need to know these personal things about you.. But everyone's different. Heavy tattooing on men or women feels offputting to me. Sort of a stay away unless you're willing to accept this. It's very drastic. Not my style.
Assuming tattoo means "tough person" or "i dont give a f" simply put, women like that because evolutionisticly speaking it means a guy who isn't afraid and gets shit done. In todays society that means a good provider. Many women will say its not like that, but for most it will always be on a sub concious lvl. Men however look for a caring woman because evolutionisticly speaking it means shell take good care of his children while he's out hunting and potentially dying and failing at raising his offspring. Furthermore a caring woman means she will not take risks the same way he does further hightening the chances of his offspring beeing raised successfully. In modern society this translates to a trustworthy and loyal companion at least once kids have been made. A woman with a tattoo however translates to "tough person" or "i dont give a f", like i previously mentioned, hence a risk taker. A man is already a risk taker, so why would he seek out another one if his goal is to successfully raise offspring? On the other hand they are a turn on for unserious business for however short period. I can ofc turn into something serious too, but seldom does a man see a woman with tattoos thinking thats the woman of my life... Simply put tattoos are more or less statements that in most societies translates to a type of personality that on our sub concious levels and often concious too fit more with our expectations for one gender than the other, men.
Wow you're messed up.
Some of my female cousins have tattoos and most of them have been married for years
And few are engaged now.
Just because a woman has tattoos, they're trashy and not for long term?
you're a stupid and heartless dog
So if a woman has a mini tattoo of a rose or whatever that represents a loved one passing away... she's automatically someone that is for "short term" ?
Gtfo here u gronk
Gronk
I find nothing appealing about tattoos on women. They aren't always a turn off, but they never increase attractiveness.
The desire to get a tattoo is based on peer or social pressure. The desire to get a tattoo usually comes before any idea of what the tattoo should be. So it's not about how to beautify, it's simply a desire to get some kind of tattoo, any kind of tattoo.
They remind me of a fad, like when it was all the rage in the 1920s for women to pluck their eyebrows entirely and then draw them on. At some point, those fads become dated. I can appreciate changing fashion trends, but fashion trends aren't permanent. People can change their clothing, hair and makeup styles with the evolving times or even from day to day. That is not true with plucked eyebrows, tattoos, ear lobe plugs or radical piercings.
To me, tattoos look like the kind of doodles someone makes in a notebook when they are bored. They are commercial art or graffiti as opposed to fine art. Many look like little more than bumper stickers. The designs aren't even unique or particularly imaginative. A flower, a butterfly, a fairy, a skull, a tribal design - most are chosen from the repertoire of choices in a tattoo artist's handbook. They've all been done before with minor embellishments.
Tattoos make what was once delicate female skin look tough and insensitive. They are like cloths that conceal the skin but can't be removed.
People may or may not find a tattoo attractive, but they will always love the look of bare female skin.
Some small tattoos are fine, but when you go over the top with tats on you boobs, thighs, stomach or ass I think you just shoot down the appeal of these erogenous zones. I don't know if it's just me but I love kissing skin, not the comic strip.



LOL the pinocchio
Omg 🤣 Pinocchio is hilarious
Well, it's all incredibly subjective. It varies greatly from individual to individual. It isn't generalised well. I know many women that don't want to see tattoos on men and same for men with women. I get It. It takes away from the natural body. Tattoos are rather permanent and one requires a minor surgery to have them removed. People simply like/dislike body modification or don't care either way.
I don't think there's an issue with a woman have a tattoo, but it isn't anything that would help promote an interest. It isn't a turn off, but it isn't a turn on. They exist as an art form, self expression and sometimes a statement.
End of the day, generalising subjectivity is silly.
Well, your poll results are currently showing that less than 60% of men really care that much, and in my experience that's probably a pretty accurate percentage.
Personally, I dislike them immensely and they're a turn-off about 99.5% of the time. I don't even think guys should do it but I'm not into guys so it's not really relevant anyway. They're trashy, they rarely actually have any real decent meaning behind them, and most importantly - it takes a certain personality type to permanently alter your body like that, and those people are almost never going to be "my type" that I look for in a romantic partner. The same can be said to an even greater degree about women who get nose, face, or excessive ear piercings.
Every mark have a story, just take a simple example of scar on your body.
Honestly speaking old generation doesn't like tattoo at all on anyone regardless of gender.
Women with tattoos gives you a warning that whether she have bad history/story connected to their past or she is not a normal girl. And it can affect future.
Let's say craving a name make sense on good place, but what the purpose a weird picture (skull) or mark on weird place e. g behind your back, slightly upper to your butts, on thighs the place which you can't expose to everyone. In my opinion it's total craziness. And who was aware of tattoos before pron.
So first thing come in to mind after seeing a girl with tattoo that she must have bitchy attitude.
So if a woman has a mini tattoo of a rose or whatever that represents a loved one passing away... she's automatically someone that is "bitchy" ?
Wtf how dumb
Well, it depend on the place and on the tattoo.
By the way if you have a rose tattoo I have no problem with it, everyone like roses but you get the nasty and negative side of the picture which is bitchy!
Tell me how I am going to see the tattoo which is on your upper back until you are not undressed?
You think girls with upper back tattoos are bitchy?
Come to the point, just tell me your purpose of get there?
I think it depends on the tattoo. Sometimes tattoos can look very masculine and that’s probably why it would be a turn off for men. But these small flowers look fine. Also too many or too big tattoos look trashy on anyone. So it’s understandable for it to be a turn off.
False. Women with tattoos are extremely sexy.
Double standards are at it again 🙄
Tattoos are awesome! A little bit of rebellion is always good!
YESS EXACTLYY!!!
Tattoos are great on ladies as far as im concerned it's even a turn on, as long as the tattoo isn't terribly done and has some personal meaning to it👌
Very true
Because society deemed women with a more of a feminity look and tattoos are suppose to be a masculine trait and it takes away from a woman's natural feminine beauty. Or at least that's how society deemed it as such. But in all honesty wtf does society know. Women can have tattoos and still look beautiful just as long as she isn't overdoing it and it's not on certain parts of her body like the face neck breasts or vagina or ass
YESSS exactly!
Its such double standards... guys can have tattoos but women can't? It's f*kd
But I agree.. as long as its not on those places like face, ass, etc..
The pictures you posted were fine and nothing wrong with those tattoos. Society just has a really fucked up way of blowing things way out of proportion sometimes.
yep you hit it on spot on. Tattoo's on women (especially visible ones) is huge turn off for me. They send off signals that they are trashy. I get the impression they are more likely going to be promiscuous, into drugs, less responsible and heavy drinkers. They are more likely to make bad mothers. From my POV they will knock down a 9 to 7 a 7 to 5, etc.
Funny because I recently been talking to a very cute, friendly but tatted up barrista. I'm still interested in hooking up with her but the thought of being in a relationship with a girl like that just makes me go meh.
Now I'm not speaking for all guys. Some guys don't mind. I also know what I said about is going to really piss off some girls. But I'm just being honest. It destroys their feminity when they do ink up their skin.
For most guys some of the most important things that make girls attractive is innocence, softness and purity. Her body is a reflection of that. Tattoos symbolize toughness and aggression. These are masculine traits. Some guys like girls with masculine traits. But so far on this survey it appears the majority don't. I don't. I want a feminine woman who isn't trying to "be like a man."
Yeah... you know you're not supposed to say these things. I'm supposed to lie about what I like instead because it's not politically correct. I'm going to lie about it? Which is a better chance a slim chance or a fat chance?
what, I love girls with tattoos, especially big ones. Just not on the neck/face
Yeah agreed
I don't like men with neck tattoos or face tattoos either
This is also very culture specific.
In the culture I grew up with, tattoos are associated with syndicated crime and criminals.
There are business establishments offering bathing services that prohibit inked individuals from entering the premises.
To this day, I don't get the appeal of tattoos at all, but I can appreciate and respect how other people from other cultures might see it as a form of art.
Different cultures value different forms of art.
Same reason facial hair is. Tattoos make a woman look very masculine and like she has daddy issues.

I don't like tattoos on anyone, but as I am only attracted to women, men's tattoos are less of a problem for me.
A woman's body is a piece of exquisite art, and tattoos are like freeway graffiti. The two should never mix.
Ah, but sometimes graffitti is art in the right hands. Not often, but it's possible. Body as canvas... maybe not the best choice since skin is so lovely. Men's skin too. Cis guys may find this hard to believe, but women find them beautiful, too. You should own that.
I think tattoos are no good! Its forbidden in Christianity and demonstrates a few things about a woman's character depending on the tattoos scope or location
My advice, is that if you feel like standing out and being unique, do something! dont paint your bodies. Make a real difference.
Men value purity in their partners more than women do. You can pick it apart and point out how illogical it is all you want: that purity is a "flawed" or "outdated" concept, or that it "has no intrinsic value", and that even if it did, a little bit of ink on your skin would have no effect on it. But it just won't change how we're programmed.
@morimeme1 What is your evidence that it is socially constructed rather than biologically predetermined?
@morimeme1 Of course it can't be biologically predetermined to dislike tattoos *specifically*, but it can be biologically predetermined to value purity and to (either correctly or incorrectly) interpret tattoos as impure.
Jealousy is evidence of biological inclination towards monogamy in humans. If humans were truly naturally polygamous or polyamorous, there would be no evolutionary reason for humans to experience jealousy.
Jealousy is also a mental state, there have been tribes and some still exist to this day where polyamory was practiced because it only makes sense that a child has a higher chance of survival if several people take care of it instead of two, it no longer appliss to modern society but it makes sense for ancient times.
@morimeme1 I don't deny that there has ever been an instance in which a tribe has successfully employed some form of polygamy/polyamory. However, I would argue that that's an example of it being employed, *despite* directly contrary biological inclination.
Tattoos historically were always looked at as a more masculine thing, mostly adorning the bodies of ship weary sailors and other military men.
To see them now on females is becoming more common but when overdone is not so attractive to most males I don't think :)
It depends on the man, and it depends on the woman.
But, I think some of it is the association of tattoos with masculinity - historically, tattoos were associated with sailors, ex-criminals and pirates (traditionally male jobs).
So, there is a cultural influence.
You are using terms that apply men in general hate tattoos and women in general love them. In the last Harris poll a plurality of both men and women prefer that their SO did NOT have them.
theharrispoll.com/.../
I love tattoos on anyone but it's gotta be a good tattoo, not some cheesy crap lol
Lol cheesy tattoos like?
I don't mind them.. they're cute and sometimes they have meanings to it.
I have one of them on my back and on my inner forearm
That's hard to find
Thats just not true. Tattoo or not. doesn't matter. Its the lady that I like.
That's good
I lovvvvve tattoos on both men and women, such a turn on! When they are well done of course, really big bad tattoos are actually a turnoff for me though. If its a small bad tattoo I don't care 🤷🏻♀️
Correction some men don't like women with ink no matter where it's at it how big it small.
Then there are those that could careless.
There also those of us that find it sexy as hell on a woman.
I personally wouldn't say tattoos are complete turn off of me, as long as they don't overdue it. But understand this: men and women are completely different, which means we value different things. So just because a woman finds something attractive, doesn't mean a man does, and vice versa. Attraction is not symmetrical.
Tattoos on men aren't that great either. Any man without muscles does not look good with tattoos to me. Tattoos accentuate and highlight the physical features of a man (primarily his biceps) so him having NO MUSCLES on his arms and tattoos just makes him look... worse.
Tats on women don't bother me, as long as it is not something from a previous relationship or a terrible design.
Very true
Uh, no, they're not.
In the beginning tattoos were what navy men did when they got shore leave, or service men that got back from deployment. In many cases they were third-world countries.
And it has been common for biker gangs, and trailer-trash people. You know, low-lifes?
Then hollyweird decided it was all the rage so regular people started getting them to be 'cool'. It's just not. In fact, it's trashy. Extremely and permanently trashy.
Like a bumper sticker on a Ferrari - trashy.
I honestly don't care I look for personality if she has a lot of tattoos should it matter I don't think so if I love her enough to ask her out I could care less how many tattoos she has
A lot of people like them on both, a lot on neither.
But broadly I’d say looking like a wild badass is more admired in men, while seeming innocent and “good” more admired in women.
I don't mind them, so long as they are tasteful. I can't stand over the top ones though. I think that most girls just look good already, having a tattoo does not usually add anything to her appeal but could ealisy distract from better features and take away from it. If you want a tattoo, then get one. Love yourself however you want too, then find someone to love you as you are!
What i donrt see talking about, is ink it self. In some vierd way, we judge woman more on ink design. So in my opinion its way harder for man to pull of any tattoo. Like ink design should be more thoughtfull than what guys can get away with. Like for a woman its hard to pull of cheap tattoo, but so much easy to pull of expensive one, who fits her body lines.
I hate tattoos on women and this stupid everyone has to get tatted and pierced generation.
It is beyond ugly to me and totally ruins her natural beauty and once pretty skin.
Guys tats?
I am not attracted to guys... that is for the girls to like or not, that is their problem.
Fkn double standards much!
It can be hot for women if its not face or neck tattoos, etc
These are mine
I mean mine have meaning I’m a huge Panic! At The Disco fan since I was 16 that was my recent one. The one on my back is my horoscope sign Sagittarius and I thought lotus flowers were pretty.
ink sprawled over skin has a greater chance of getting me in bed than any other.
Its a huge turn on regardless of gender.
I like tattoos on men and women as long as they aren't fucked up
Ah hell no babe. Tattoos are a major turn on for me on women. You just haven't found the right guy. 😉
Tattoo are usually seen as something manly so it's pretty logic guys wouldn't like it on women though I know many men that like tattoo on women and find it sexy (in my country).
Yeah there are some men that likes tattoos on women or don't mind it I guess
People associate tattoos with impulsiveness, aggression and disregard for social norms.
Those are not traits that men find particularly attractive in women.
I'm honestly not a fan of tattoos on anyone, period. I don't mind small, well placed ones as much, but I'm really not a fan of sleeves, huge tattoos, or anything like face tattoos. Just not my thing.
I like sleeves tattoos but definitely not neck and face tattoos
I don't think they're a turnoff so I wouldn't know.
Wrong, I love tattoos on women
Tattoos look very sexy and badass on women
Actually, I find small tattoos that have great significance for the woman to be tasteful and attractive.
I don't like tattoos on anybody. I think most see it as a touch and masculine thing. Maybe they see women as skin should be not tampered with and more delicate and deem women without tattoos more feminine.
Tattoos are an instant turn on. haven't met a guy that doesn't like tattoos on women
I selected "I don't mind tattoos on women", but only if they're not that large. I like a small and subtle tattoo, and ofc the design is a personal thing to like or dislike
Small tattoo is ok , even sexy if it's not old fashion green one.
I agree that male and female should be equal but not in all aspects. So yes to equal rights and big NO to equal behaviour. When I think female I think gentle, silky , smooth.. like a flower , not a tattooed wannabe thugs
So if she gets a tattoo of a rose that represents her mum or dad or relative who passed away... you think she's a thug?
you're messed up in the head
I'm not, no I'm not.
I was referring to a tattoos like on a girl from picture , from top to bottom and general behaviour I said small tattoo is sweet even sexy. And if you need a tattoo to remember beloved who passed away, than my dear I'm not the one who's head is messed up.
I remember my family and dear friends without ink under skin every day, so no need to make colouring page , use a reminder on your phone if you're unable to remember mom, dad and relatives.
Dude no one is the same.
Just because you wouldn't put a tattoo for memorial, doesn't mean the other person shouldn't as well.
It's like saying "I don't like to eat cheese so people that eat cheese are disgusting"
There's so many ways to display resemblance.
It shouldn't matter how and what.
Don't criticize and judge people that has tattoos.
And are you seriously saying "put a reminder on phone" ? Lmao what the f?
How retarded can you get.
I am a woman and I do not like tattoos on anyone unless there is a good reason they are there ! like if a guy likes a girl and has her name on his body or the initials of someone who has passed away other then this - yukk -
Personally I find all tattoos whether on males or females a huge turn off.
Agree to disagree
I, personally, love tattoos whether on a man or a woman.
Every tattoo I have holds some significance to me. It's an expression of my inner thoughts, and when someone looks at the ink on my skin, they get to have a little look at what's inside.
Tattoos are fine as long as it's not a part of some pop culture trend.
I have a couple tattoos and people think they are fine
Tattoos are for sailors, pirates and inmates. Most men that are not sailors, pirates and inmates don't like to fuck sailors, pirates and inmates.
I absolutely LOVE tattoos on girls!!!
I never find it a turn off... the other way it's something I find really really hot!!
I don't like tattoos on anyone. It's a trend and a fad that's gotten really lame at this point. SO many people have tattoos that now I'm surprised by clean skin.
I don't know about Western countries, but here in Japan all tattoos are highly frowned upon, regardless of your sex. The only people that get them here are mostly Yakuza and gangs, not good common people. Because tattoos associated with criminal elements most jobs won't hire people with tattoos and many parks, stores, beaches, and restaurants don't allow people with tattoos in for fear they will cause trouble.
Unless the tattoo is something you can relate to for your entire life and will never change no matter what, they are advertising your complacency and lack of foresight
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