You can tell her which clothes you want to see on her more often but it's not a good idea wanting to change her style. I would wear certain types of clothes more often if my husband thinks they are attractive but I definitely would not change my style and let myself be uncomfortable just because someone can't get over the way I dress.
Most of the outfits you suggest do actually make those women look like teenagers. But if you want her to wear dresses more often why don’t you take her to places where it’s normal/expected to wear a dress? Maybe she’ll get more used to wearing one and start wearing them more off-dates as well. But if she doenst, don’t try to force her. The way people dress is quite often an important form of self expression, so if you push her too hard you may lose her.
Too long, too much detail. So you post like a girl. The first sentence was all you needed.
You can compliment on what you like when you see it, reinforcing what YOU like in hopes she'll seek more recognition.
But getting her to change from what she wants isn't likely to go anywhere very fast. You don't own her, she has free will. Don't be a controlling asshole.
Take her shopping! Ask her if she’s try on clothes that you like and you try on clothes that she likes and discuss what each other thinks. I think that’d be fun!
But in all seriousness, I don’t believe you can make a woman wear your preferred style as she’s only gonna lose respect for your controlling ways. However, I would recommend suggesting a selection of outfits for her to wear and she can pick her favourite. If she’s still uninterested, then I’m sorry I couldn’t help you.
I’m fashion-conscious myself, so I’d feel the same way you do if my wife’s style devolved 😅
That sucks men, but with women you can't start trying to make them do something Especially nowadays, women turn nasty if you mention their fashion choices. Just he grateful she isn't exposing her body like crazy.
I agree though, her original style was so beautiful and classy 😭
simple ! do not give your wife any way to pay for the clothes she buys unless you are with her ! do not give her - money , a charge card or any way of buying clothes without you there to approve of these garments yourself ! thanks
Communicate your thoughts a feelings. Ask her to wear clothes you like, but then recognize this as her making a compromise, and also make a compromise yourself in favour of your wife.
Maybe you can ask her why did she change her style. I think she feels like she is married and she has to dress modestly? Every woman has the right to wear what makes them feel comfortable.
Make her? Lol... u could suggest and tell her you miss her old style... respect is key in a relationship
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you dont. You stop expecting her to do things she doesn't want to do or get lost. You sound like the asshole honestly Id be very unhappy to have you as. a husband.
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You can tell her which clothes you want to see on her more often but it's not a good idea wanting to change her style. I would wear certain types of clothes more often if my husband thinks they are attractive but I definitely would not change my style and let myself be uncomfortable just because someone can't get over the way I dress.
Most of the outfits you suggest do actually make those women look like teenagers. But if you want her to wear dresses more often why don’t you take her to places where it’s normal/expected to wear a dress? Maybe she’ll get more used to wearing one and start wearing them more off-dates as well. But if she doenst, don’t try to force her. The way people dress is quite often an important form of self expression, so if you push her too hard you may lose her.
Too long, too much detail. So you post like a girl. The first sentence was all you needed.
You can compliment on what you like when you see it, reinforcing what YOU like in hopes she'll seek more recognition.
But getting her to change from what she wants isn't likely to go anywhere very fast. You don't own her, she has free will. Don't be a controlling asshole.
Take her shopping! Ask her if she’s try on clothes that you like and you try on clothes that she likes and discuss what each other thinks.
I think that’d be fun!
You like dresses 👗 take her dress shopping and ask her to dress you up so you know what she likes on you too
The marriage must’ve gotten to her, lol 🤣
But in all seriousness, I don’t believe you can make a woman wear your preferred style as she’s only gonna lose respect for your controlling ways. However, I would recommend suggesting a selection of outfits for her to wear and she can pick her favourite. If she’s still uninterested, then I’m sorry I couldn’t help you.
I’m fashion-conscious myself, so I’d feel the same way you do if my wife’s style devolved 😅
That sucks men, but with women you can't start trying to make them do something
Especially nowadays, women turn nasty if you mention their fashion choices. Just he grateful she isn't exposing her body like crazy.
I agree though, her original style was so beautiful and classy 😭
I don't know... negotiate? That's what I've heard from my married friends.
I have yet to see a man with a flawless style in everyday, so offer to use clothes she likes and she does the same. Who knows? It might be fun.
Give her a good reason to wear a dress. Take her to a nice restaurant with a dress code. Win-win!
simple ! do not give your wife any way to pay for the clothes she buys unless you are with her ! do not give her - money , a charge card or any way of buying clothes without you there to approve of these garments yourself ! thanks
Maybe you should just let her be comfortable and be happy in what she wears?
Why don't you try wearing that stuff? A day in heels and a dress is uncomfortable bud.
Talk to her and see if you can compromise.
Compliment the stuff she has you do like. Shell wear it and stuff like it more. Shop with her and voice your likes.
Did the same to my wife. She would buy the ones I liked. And noticed that none had that awful floral patterns.
She will wear what she wants. It's her body. If she doesn't like it, don't force her.
Communicate your thoughts a feelings. Ask her to wear clothes you like, but then recognize this as her making a compromise, and also make a compromise yourself in favour of your wife.
Maybe you can ask her why did she change her style. I think she feels like she is married and she has to dress modestly? Every woman has the right to wear what makes them feel comfortable.
it is her body mate.. you can't make them wear anything unless they want it too.. maybe a little bit distancing? less sex maybe?
It is outdated especially for a woman in her 30s to be dressing like that... maybe she's just adulting now.
Dear God, just seen the update. Those are clothes for a 3rd grader lmao
Make her? Lol... u could suggest and tell her you miss her old style... respect is key in a relationship
you dont. You stop expecting her to do things she doesn't want to do or get lost. You sound like the asshole honestly Id be very unhappy to have you as. a husband.
You can’t. She wears whatever she wants to wear, and if you don’t like it then that’s your problem. Don’t try and control her.